Can you be too comfortable of being single?

[Anonymous]

Like, you’re so comfortable of being single that you refuse to make any effort to go on dates and find someone.

[molonski2]

I think you can quite easily , in Feng Sui they have a complete system to ready yourself for a partner , its pretty involved but basically its allowing another into your life , so when your single , you can really enjoy your routine , and you may think , " If I take on this person , I have compromise xyz etc " , and the longer you are on your own , the more difficult to make space for another..

I've been in this spot in the past , and I was just too dam busy with stuff , so I think its a conscious decision , and Feng Sui works in this regard , but you have to have made that decision first , but only if that's what you want in essence .

[Anonymous]

Yeah, women are terrifying and are cruel. It's really difficult to talk to them nowadays, especially since Tinder was created. I am usually fine when I don't speak to them and feel comfortable avoiding them. Sometimes, when I am just being friendly, without any intentions, they give me a strange stare, and I back off.

Every nice thing a guy does can be seen as flirting, even when you don't have that intention. So I don't even open the door or compliment or anything I used to do anymore.

[Beckybooboo]

I was single for over a year after a tough breakup. I graduated college and moved out of state for a good job opportunity. I was actually happy with how things were. Starting a new job and being in a relationship might have been overwhelming! However, I was lonely, at times, in the beginning because I didn’t know anyone but after a couple months, I made good friends. Then one day, I ran into my current boyfriend, he wasn’t expected because I was enjoying my single life but I am glad he came into my life. So, yes, single life can become a comfortable way of life.

[MissStrawberry912]

It’s not bad at all as long as you’re happy. For me, it was periods of healing or just wanting to focus on myself, happiness, goals, my loved ones. But now is changed.

[Jerre]

I really enjoy being single I own my own waterfront house in Florida, a screened in pool and usually have female company for lots of sex. Sex is my favorite hobby and I fuck 4-5 times a week as I am Hyperspermia and always have lots of cum to give the girls.

[Asker]

That just sounds made up.

[Jerre]

No it isn’t, very true.

[Jerre]

Come visit me and I can show you how much cum I have

[Asker]

I rather jump off of a cliff into a pile of jagged rocks.

[loveslongnails]

If you're comfortable being single, why would you care about going on dates in the first place? It's such a human trait to mistake striving for something else out of some feeling of obligation or lacking, with leaving well enough alone.

[lightbulb27]

Yea that was me for years. Its just avoidance of the change nexessary, the risks that must be taken, and the pain to overcome

[RavVid]

Well I am quite comfortable being single and have no intention of partnering up. of course I do want sex so that is what I go for.

[coolbreeze]

Yes it can be hard to get out of the comfort zone. Dating is like a job it's a lot of work.

[Siri137]

In other words, can you be too comfortable living the good life? Naaaahhhhhh... :)

[Anonymous]

A lot of single people become very lazy. It becomes too easy just to sit on the couch and feel miserable about yourself.

[Asker]

I was thinking more like they’re content being single because they enjoy their own company instead of others.

[Asker]

But, you’re not totally wrong on that. There are people like that.

[zagor]

That would be me now. Not that I'm comfortable in other aspects of my life, but I don't get out much anymore.

[dudeinohio]

Not me. I've always been relationship oriented. Being alone is terrifying.

[Asker]

I’ve been alone for 31 years.

[boobliker]

no, its the best thing I did at 45

[Anonymous]

Oh come on sash!🥹

[Asker]

What? 🤨

[eagle1951]

maybe