Is it normal to be so comfortable being single that you don’t a want relationship at all?

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Juneberry91 · Accepted Answer

Yes! We humans are a creature of habit & routine. When someone has been in a relationship for a long time they break up not missing the person but actually missing the relationship. Everything that they use to be so famikr with is now different. Example Sleeping alone is hard, Eva use you alway had to share.

A person in singleness just moves & vibes at thier own pase & getting in a relationship can be hard because now you do have to take in consideration for some else as well. Sharing the Bed is hard cause you had the whole thing to yourself!

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I believe a man could bring me a lot of emotional joy and bliss but I know there are things that I might have difficulty with like enduring the physical act of pregnancy and birth and baby nursing or moving into another home that requires more effort and maintenance than my current house.

UncleBilll · Accepted Answer

Yes married a girl from high school. She died of and OD, raised the 3 daughter's alone. Decided to stay single, been so happy ever since, I date, have friends circles, successful in life which gives me options.. Also strip clubs, gambling and drinkin' I am happy

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

Nope, that's not normal as we are intelligently designed to seek reproduce spread and take dominion over the earth.

Pinay_ako · Answer

When you’re comfortable and happy being alone and single, then you’ve reached that level of happiness that even the ones in relationships can never achieve! Good for you!

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not looking, I'm completely comfortable and happy being single. However, it's not like I reject people because I want to be single, I reject them because I don't like them romantically or sexually, even on a friendship level I dislike most people. My bullshit radar is just too good so I luckily figure them out fast. So, in general, I do have an idea of what kind of partner I would maybe want, but it might be I never find that person and if that's the case that is totally fine. It is MUCH BETTER being single then being in a disatisifying relationship. For people like me 99% of relationships are disatisfying so the common sense is to stay single obviously. Actually if there would like be a way to remove attraction (to become completely asexual and aromantic) I'd do it in a hearthbeat, it literally just gets in a way of my happy single life.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

It is if you keep busy with hobbies and such. But dating is always a good thing to try, I think. I'm happy where I'm at now but that doesn't mean I don't want to find someone I can be in a relationship with. Or at least try to date people. Life isn't fun & exciting if things are always the same.

ElGato31 · Answer

I think, yes. I do miss cuddles sometimes and chats at 4am in bed after a great night. But overall, being in a relationship seems like a chore now. That's why I decided to slow down. It will grow organically, not forced, because someone wants to be in a relationship.

I think we should be able to live on our own happily, and when we meet someone, choose to be with him because we want him, not because he was available.

serious · Answer

Yes of course. Why not.

I have all been single and wish to remain single for life, I keep myself occupied with office work (most of the time) and I also occupy myself with things I love to do, like go to gym, go watch movie in a theatre or even at home and also play some games.

Either way I keep myself occupied. I am totally comfortable with myself.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. And when you reach that level of spiritual attainment, women in bars will no longer frighten you. Much like wild bears, women can smell fear. The ancient masters called it "notgivingashitness.

bolverk · Answer

Nothing wrong with it at all as you are in the age range when you should be focused on your career, and not any serious relationship, you have plenty of time on the future as a man's prime is in his 30's+ we do not have the dating pressure that women have to be married before 30yo.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

Fuck yeah is normal!

especially if you are a dude cause lets face it, relationships are one sided nowadays; they only benefit women. the only benefit you get out of a relationship is a substitution for your hand and even that comes with its consequences and limitations

Anonymous · Answer

Its normal, if you're happy single then a relationship can bring you nothing.

I'm single cause I know I'm an absolute nightmare to be with, I'm ways too jealous and possessive when I love someone but if I date a guy I don't love then it just turn badly cause he feel unloved and used.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

The absolute best position to be in is to date girls, put in zero effort, sleep with them, and let the relationship die or wait until she cheats on you. Then get a new girlfriend
It's fucking awesome, try it

VanillaSalt · Answer

It’s normal for someone that is busy all the time between work and hobbies. I used to spend 60-90 hrs/ week working graveyard and never interacted with others. If i never interacted with my brother Ide never have bothered looking for a family.

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

You should be comfortable being single and being happy spending time with yourself. If you can't enjoy time with yourself, what makes you think others will enjoy time with you

devilish-cutie · Answer

no, sexual desire is normal, its more likely defense mechanism but there are so many different people that it is possible but rare

UniquelyBasic · Answer

I doubt anyone likes being single over having a good relationship with someone they love but people are different, I guess.

On_cloud_wine · Answer

I like being single so much that I don’t care if it’s normal or not

CreatingWonders · Answer

Yes, I don’t want to be in a relationship the one I got out of 9 months ago was enough for me. There’s nothing wrong with you living your life the way you want.

JSmuve · Answer

Yes. No one says you have to want a relationship.

skyee_727 · Answer

yes. relationships are too much effort in my opinion.

Nikki1989 · Answer

People become lazy in all kinds of ways.

AsaKyo · Answer

Yes, perfectly fine

rabbitzzz · Answer

I guess if there are no good options.

AdithyaR · Answer

Totally possible and totally fine.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah. I'm at that point now.

Sasha0426 · Answer

Oh, yeah. You can live your life however you want.

In_Trance · Answer

whatever works for you

melanieeeB · Answer

Yeah of course

cryscrys1 · Answer

Yes welcome home lol

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Yeah.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely

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