Did anyone else lose hope?

[Anonymous]

I don’t have hope to find a man who will respect me the way he should. I really don’t. I had to grapple with it. Like should I just become a hooker or not. Now i realized im so mentally far gone that I’d go with the first guy who wants me and to use me.

it sucks but it just shows how low down I’ve gone. How I’ve lost hope. It’s not just a throughly anymore. It’s just life.

[MissStrawberry912]

Aw I’m sorry sis :( sending hugs! I’ve been there and it does get like that sometimes.. but it also just means we gotta pick and choose someone who’s worth those emotional investment that won’t make us feel like that. Maybe take a break and work on healing yourself first 💖 I hope you find love for yourself and someone who’s genuine.

[Asker]

Thank you 😊 !

[Isabellaioss]

I did lose hope that I'll not find the kind of love I dreamt of. However, when you do lose hope, don't think that that's probably you not being meant to ever have someone good. A lot many things do not come in our life so much that we lose our hope so that we work on ourselves. And when the time is right, trust me, you may have given up the thought, but someone possibly better than what you dreamt will stand near you.

So don't worry! Just get the thought that ' I'm all good alone in your mind' to keep you going and then you'll eventually reach there when the time is right.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Wtf? Instead of trying to find a boyfriend, you would become a hooker. No, you should not become another cheap wh0re. Do you have any idea how many guys are still virgins?

[Asker]

I don’t get what guys being virgins has to do with this. I’d be willing to have a boyfriend who doesn’t respect me and just uses my body for sex but gives me something in return. It seems that’s all the guys have to offer to me anyway.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

You are overlooking guys that would be glad to be your boyfriend. If that's what you think that guys have nothing to offer then maybe you're right, you could just be another nobody.

[Asker]

I mean they don’t have or want to be or do anything real with me. They only have to offer the sex thing to me or using me. It sounds like I’m saying they aren’t worth more
But I’m saying they are not offering me more.

[Asker]

I don’t get what virgin men has to do with anything.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Virgin men because those guys would love to be someone's boyfriend. They just don't know how.

[Asker]

I don’t reject men based on if they’re a virgin.

[aceleon]

girl, respect yourself first instead of debating becoming a dumb slut.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Why have you lost the hope?

[Saiesh30]

Why have you lost hope in first place?

[Asker]

Life wears you down

[Saiesh30]

That I understood. But what's it with finding the guy thing

[Asker]

People want from you what they want and that’s that. It doesn’t seem like you run into people who just want to be with you for you.

[Saiesh30]

Gotcha!!! That's definitely exhausting and gets intolerable after reaching your saturation point.

[Asker]

Thanks for understanding. Maybe some girls get lucky in life and find a man that really likes them. But then some girls like me have to just trade our bodies for some sort of affection or protection.

[Saiesh30]

Wanna DM?

[Asker]

Sure

[Anonymous]

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