So my friend has been in this relationship with this girl for about a year and some change. And this chick is crazy. Like he used to cry and still gets angry at her all the time. And it bothered me so much to the point where I told him everything I always wanted to say. Like how he should move on. That there’s better women out there. And the next week, he acts like nothing happened. So I decided not to help him anymore. Anyways, some of the things that piss me off about her is that she will bitch at him for being tired when he has to travel three hours to be home since he moved to where she’s at for her! And she’s ungrateful. Not only that, but my friend tells me all time that he can’t even glance at any girl, or they’ll get into arguments. Like no joke, she will even bitch to him about a movie having pretty girls in it because it makes her feel “insecure.” Like get over it. You’re fucking insane if you can’t even let your boyfriend watch a movie just because it has “prettier girls” in it. Like get over yourself, psycho. Not only that, but she has made him cried multiple times because she would be pissed off at him. Anyways, I have to see this lady soon because my friends and I are having a going away party. And she’s gonna be there. How do I act?
How do I act when I have to see my friend’s girlfriend?
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Your friend is an adult man n he made his choice to be w this woman in relationship. Do you even know her or you only judge her by stories he told you? Noone really knows whats going on in someones realitionship besides 2 people involved. Sure your friend has his reasons for being with her and you only seem to hear about bad sides and not the good sides. Relationships are hard and people are different. Sure she may be a bitch but he made his choice, youtold him your opinion and that is literally all you can do. If he wants to date her you need to respect that and mind your own business.
If you never met her, it would be good for you to get to know her and judge for ysf, without influence of your friend. If you do know her and think she is a bitch or dont want to get to know her than on the party you dont have to really interact with her besides polite words like hello, goodbye, thank you...
I met her before. And even my best friend agrees with me about her who she also met. She’s toxic asf. And he’s only with her because he’s insecure about himself. And she makes it worse for his self esteem. That’s why he’s with her. She manipulative. Even my friends that barely know her think something is off about her
Sure but dont ever think you know everything about someones relationship, and you cannot live life for someone else, it says about your friend for being w her, not all insecure people date toxic people
He told me multiple times about their relationship. Like I said, I tried to help him
Damn dude, sounds like your friend got himself hooked up with a Grade A psycho bitch. That's rough.
When you see her, I'd just play it cool. Be polite but keep your distance, ya feel? Don't give her any reason to start drama.
If she brings up your boy, just be like "yeah we go way back" and change the subject stat. Ask about her classes or something boring till you can slip away.
Don't let your real feelings show - she'll probably be watching you close looking for issues. Just smile and nod, then bail whenever you can find your homies.
I know you wanna tell her what's what, but it ain't worth the hassle my guy. Just feel bad for your boy and can't wait till he ditches the crazy. Keep being real with him, he'll come around eventually.
For now survive the party, get nachos, and avoid that looney tune. You got this bro! Just few more hours then she's outta your fro.
Just be polite but distant when you have to say hello, then ignore her. Easy.