How many rejections are there too many? Is something wrong with me?

[JoshSimmer]

So far, my dating life is just low. I can get a first date but can't get a second date. I had tried 5 different girls, and 3 of them I got first dates. I was really wondering if I am the problem. I wanted to be the best for her, but they said it not going to work. I don't know me or is the girls whom I am choosing. I feel I don't belong with anyone or I am not good enough. If so there a point I telling myself why try if you just suck and just a loser. I don't know why or just bad luck. Don't know what to do. I just feel like I just empty man or pathetic person who is seeking to high of a gold. I am trying every and see no reason to try getting married. I am really thinking I horrible person and that what they see and I can't see it.

[slatyb]

Five? Big deal. I was dating online and one year I had like seventeen first dates and no second dates. Suppose you are compatible with 7% of the women in your dating pool. It's going to take an average of 10 dates before you meet one of them.

It's hard to say more without having a detailed description of one of your dates. Where did you go? What did you talk about? Did you have anything in common? Sometimes you just don't. You are interested in indie rock bands and she's into jazz. You like to be outdoors and she prefers to go to cultural events. Whatever.

[zagor]

Keep trying. You only need one.