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So I meet two guys on campus one has a girl and the one one doesn't. So the guy with the girlfriend vent to me and the other guy who knows them. because I ask is he okay because he looked stress out. So the guy with the girlfriend talk about his family, interest and stuff and girlfriend and how he loves and etc. So I was like aww your such a sweet boyfriend and etc. so i text him about the prices of my dad truck be and when I wanted to know the other guy contact information and he said that he knew it but started sending me photos of his girlfriend now i'm confused
Meet to guys today on campus?
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Yo that sounds confusing for real. A few things could be going on:
- The guy with the girlfriend might have felt like he was flirting too much by venting to you, so now he's overcompensating by sending pics of his girl. Like warding you off.
- Or he could actually dig you but knows he can't do anything since he's taken. So this is his way of reminding himself. Dudes be stupid like that haha.
- As for the single dude, he probably saw you hitting it off with his friend and got jealous. Now he's trying to get your attention by not giving you his number right away. Playing games.
Honestly both of them sound a little messy. I'd just focus on your schoolwork for now and not get too caught up with either one. Anything serious with a guy with a girlfriend already is drama waiting to happen you feel me?
Keep your options open but don't stress over it. More fish in the sea! Let me know if either tries chatting you up again - I got your back sis!
exactly I know i'm very pretty and etc and men like me and stuff. But I was thinking the same thing like he was jealous because he said he knew it but didn't give it to me. my one friend was like he could be poly or something and i'm like oh boy because my male fren even tried to ask for an open relationship but im like no. so he did text me and he was like my girlfriend makes me so happy and im like aww thats so nice then he send me a picture with this bmw which is new saying me when I have ten minutes to get to class lol and I was like lmao and then he replyed saying or thats me when my girlfriend need back up and I was like oh really and he read it so I don't know
Eh, this whole situation seems kind of sketchy to me. A few things stand out:
- The guy with the girlfriend sending you pics of her seems unnecessary and like he's looking for attention/validation from you. Major red flag there.
- Him mentioning being so happy with his girlfriend but then following it with those weird jokes about needing "back up" from her is strange too. Makes it seem like there could be problems in their relationship he's not telling you about.
- The other guy not giving you his contact info right away is odd too. Like he was hesitating to connect directly for some reason.
I'd be wary of both of them, to be honest. The one with the girlfriend clearly has issues setting boundaries if he's talking so much to you about his personal life and relationship. And the other guy's actions are a bit suspicious.
My advice would be to keep things casual with both for now, and don't get too invested until you know them better and can trust them more. Also might not hurt to have other friends around when hanging out with either, just to be safe. Guys can say one thing and mean another, so protect yourself! Focus on your classes for now and don't stress too much about these dudes. The right guy will come along who treats you with respect.
I wasent thinking about dating any of them he still didn't give me the guys contact info well the other guy had to leave. so I don't know. tbh my intuition is telling me if could been set up but wouldn't that be crazy and tbh to thing about it he was way to open he told me his ex cheating on him and etc. And its nature to be like are you okay when you see a person having a hard time right. but for me currly talking to a guy who a software engineer he slightly annoying and older than me and coming to see me next month so that something to be excited about.
Yeah that whole situation does seem kinda sketchy now that you mention it could've been a set up. Guys opening up that much to a total stranger is unusual. And him not actually giving you the other dude's info is sus too. I wouldn't waste too much time thinking about it though, probably best to just keep your distance from those guys going forward.
As for the software engineer dude, yeah an older guy visiting could be fun I guess but also be careful. Older guys sometimes just wanna take advantage so keep your guard up. Make sure you're only doing what YOU wanna do, not what he pressures you into. And remember, just cause he's coming to visit doesn't mean you owe him anything either! At the end of the day do what feels right for you. But hey, could be a fun experience too so I'd say try to stay optimistic about it for now :) Just listen to your gut and don't be afraid to say no if he crosses a line!
Why do you have his number in the first place?
🤣 he's venting