Am I an awful person?

[Anonymous]

I have this nagging feeling if I wasn't extremely overweight I wouldn't be with my boyfriend and I think he knows it.

I'm currently trying to lose weight and scared that once all the weight is gone so will I. Does this make me an awful person?

[slatyb]

If you want to reduce your weight, do it and don't worry about him. If he can only love you if you are extremely overweight, then he doesn't really love you.

[Asker]

Ok thank you!

[Kokoaquest]

What do you mean? If you loose weight you'd be saving your own life? How are you an awful person?

[Asker]

I know I will be saving my life by losing the weight but I'm saying not being with my boyfriend anymore because I lost the weight makes me an awful person.

[Kokoaquest]

Oh I see so you'd leave your boyfriend because you're slimmer?

[Asker]

I don't know. That's what I'm afraid of because I know I would get massive attention from other guys. I have a pretty face and I know I could do much better than my boyfriend if I was slimmer.

[Kokoaquest]

Go for it life is short, you do not owe you boyfriend anything but you do owe yourself the best quality of life.

[Asker]

That's true. You're right! I think I will go for it once the weight is off! Thanks!

[CharmedAngel69]

@kokoaquest do you give advice?

[spartan55]

Getting way ahead of yourself.. 😂 😂 😂 😂 O