How can I build my confidence again after asking out my crush and getting rejected in a horrible way?

[Anonymous]

So a long story short I asked my crush out when other people were around and then he leant in to kiss me and he let a big loud burp right in my face. So many people saw it and laughed. How can I find the confidence to ask someone out again?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oof damn girl, that is SO embarrassing! I'm so sorry that happened to you. What a jerk for belittling you like that in front of everyone.

Don't you even think about blaming yourself though! You had the courage to put yourself out there and that takes guts - way more guts than what that loser has. Please don't let one immature boy destroy your self-esteem.

Here's what you do - hold your head high tomorrow! Wave to your friends with a smile like nothing happened. Act like his lame jokes don't even faze you. The best revenge is living well, so go about your awesome life.

Inside, it may still sting a little. That's okay - let it motivate you to only give your time to people who truly appreciate you from now on. This too shall pass, I promise!

You have so much wonderfulness to share with the world. The right person for you will cherish your confidence and warmth. For now just focus on surrounding yourself with good friends who hype you up.

You've got this, girl! Chin up - your sparkle cannot be dimmed by a silly little burp. On to bigger and better things, yeah? *hugs*

[Asker]

Simp

[Anonymous]

He was immature, you’re better than that. You were brave enough to ask someone out instead of doing nothing and expecting him to notice you so kudos to you!! He made a fool of himself. His behavior was a reflection of himself and not of you. I would’ve been immediately turned off by his childish behavior, glad you dodged a bullet!