Is he interested or just wants something platonic?

[Anonymous]

Met a guy online and currently chatting with him. After almost 2 weeks of chatting, he hasn't t expressed any interest to meet up.

Also is it weird this guy never says good night but instead carries on the conversation next day?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm it's hard to say for sure. A few things could be going on:

- He may just want to chat online for now and take things slow before meeting up. Not everyone jumps right to meeting, some like to get to know someone more first.

- It could be he's shy or nervous about meeting, so chatting online is safer/easier for now. Give him time, maybe gently suggest meeting for a low-key hangout to ease him into it.

- The fact he continues chatting each day rather than saying goodnight is actually a good sign - means he's interested in continuing the convo. If he just wanted platonic he'd probably say goodnight.

I'd say give it a bit longer chatting, then you could try suggesting something casual like getting a coffee. See how he responds. If he keeps making excuses not to meet then maybe he's just looking for an online penpal. But for now seems he's interested in you based on chatting daily. Just take it slow!

[Crankor]

Depends how inexperienced he is with online dating. Have you ever suggested meeting up?

[Asker]

Not yet but will ask soon to see