My mental health has been suffering bc a guy had ghosted me after a date…. My mom reached out to him… is that too much?

[Anonymous]

I haven’t ate or slept… my work had been suffering a lot… I kept asking what I did so wrong…

I just want to know what happened…

I saw him today in the store with another girl and I broke down

[Keyboardkat]

I really don't think at your age that your mom should be insinuating herself into this and reaching out to him, because it makes you look childish and weak! I can understand, though, that a parent can feel real anger towards someone who hurt their adult child, but it's probably not appropriate. You need, perhaps, a stronger ego. If this is what he did, if this is how he treats another person, then he is definitely NOT the right guy for you, no matter if you had thought he might be. You are well rid of him! There ARE decent guys out there.

[Asker]

You’re right

[Anonymous]

You’re an adult. It’s amazing women call men immature, little kids but society still babies women. You’re almost 30, why does your mom need to intervene? Move on. Maybe this is why he ghosted you, because of your personality. Certain vibes you put off. He’s moved on, you need to do the same. Sure it’s ok to cry for a while, but eventually you need to move on.

[Asker]

Okay

He thinks I’m unstable

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so what he thinks, is he accurate?

[Asker]

Possibly… he’s not the only guy who thinks so

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so you need to fix that first before you try to meet someone because it’s always going to be an issue.

[Asker]

I wish I could start over with him. I wish he would come back

[Opinion Owner]

Ok but more than likely you can’t. You may have a slim chance if you fix your mental issues. Otherwise there’s no chance

[Amara_09]

Yes, your parents…. your mother should never be involved in your relationship issues.

[Asker]

I’m just so hurt by it

I’m not thinking clearly

[spartan55]

You told me it wasn't him in the store.

[Asker]

No I don’t think so… but I’m not sure

He had the accent, same build and similar clothes… but the nose seemed smaller

[spartan55]

Let it go...

[spartan55]

Let me remind you that you didn't even want a relationship with this guy. It's insane...

[Asker]

That’s not true. I wasn’t ready… but he was possibly just trying to use me for sex

The real him eventually came out when he ghosted ne

[lovepuss69]

Watch a good movie