I'm 19 and gonna turn 20 soon. Never been in a relationship. And all my friends are in a relationship. And it feels lonely af in uni. What should Ido?

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I can't date anyone, coz of my busy life

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

And I'm sure that you are just dying to experience certain things we all go through that

This is the one thing I do like about the internet and chat sites is

You can explore certain avenues of life if you find a person to role play with or if you find an app that you can role play and experience that way you would be amazed on how deep somebody can make you feel and actually what somebody can truly make you feel just through words

Do you have fantasies do you want to experience things I mean I can tell you a few apps to go to and where you can be anonymous and just experience the things that you want to experience

Al_Musafir · Accepted Answer

You don't need to be in a relationship with someone to not feel lonely. Don't you have any friends? I mean close ones that you can trust?

Even if being in a romantic relationship matters to you, make sure that you are with someone who's good for you, not because you are feeling lonely. People often make that mistake. But considering that you're 19 and haven been in a relationship with anyone yet, it does tell a bit that you're less likely to be with someone just because of your loneliness.. because you know, people your age have already done lot of stuff. Just be wise and trust your gut. You'll be good.

All the best.

wiltingrosepetal · Accepted Answer

I saw a lot online about how screwed up modern dating is. How all women belong to the streets and all men are Andrew Tate fans who will say anything to bed the girl. But I had a relationship with a guy for almost two years and it was as traditional as can be. Slow paced, sincere, and very gently became intimate.

If subconsciously you are holding yourself back from dating because you believe the market is trash, that's not true. Plenty of men still date to fall in love. I say go for it. You're only young once. The 20s should be full of new relationships 😄

Bekaaaaaaaahhhh · Accepted Answer

I’ve never been in a relationship either. Focus on you and realise that it’s worth the wait than to deal with these idiots, you seem focused on other things anyway. Just change the way you think about it, it’s a privilege to not have to worry about / answer to anyone else, to completely focus on your busy life. When you have a relationship you may miss how things where before sometimes.

Avicenna · Answer

Don't compare yourself to other people. It will always leave you dissatisfied. Do you hit on the guys you're interested in?

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Why are you not dating?

lightbulb27 · Answer

accept your reality, focus on your studies... uni is expensive and the goal is to get a job. but finding a mate now is easier if you can pull it off.

if you have time to socialize or explore other activities an dmeet people so be it. realize your friends are also in complex drama situations that is distracting.

Avcfhcic · Answer

I'm 23 and have never been in a relationship.

You're young, you don't need to compare to others. You know that you have other priorities now so focus on yourself and when you have more time you can look for that special someone!

BCA6010 · Answer

Keep your education as the top priority, and try to make time for clubs, church groups or some other interest you have. You're more likely to meet someone with shared interests there than moping about in your classes or room.

slatyb · Answer

You can't be that busy. You must have some down time.

Fireguy17 · Answer

don't worry about it, easier said than done, and don't rush into one just so you are in a relationship, as it could end up being a not so great relationship.
It will happen soon enough.
you are young, most guys that age are still fairly immature.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I think you should date, if you are lonely, I think it's the best decision, make room

HelpfulWoman · Answer

get the fuck over yourself? because it doesn't matter. get a hobby other than obsessing over dumb shit

OddBeMe · Answer

Firstly it’s not a race. Second I was 20 before I really started dating.

It is based a lot on luck, but like buying multiple lottery tickets, you can increase chances by becoming confident and learning how to meet and talk to people. (Lottery is not a good comparison as it’s not based on luck).

NathanDavis · Answer

focus on your studies... guys can wait

HouseMoat · Answer

Noones truly "busy" to not date. If you wanted to date, you'd find a way

jshm2 · Answer

Offer your ass for no strings, to your favourite professor? Joking aside, a relationship is serious business. You get what you put into it. You are putting in nothing, so getting nothing.

zagor · Answer

What are you busy with? Uni? When I was in college few people were in relationships, except for some hookups. Keep your focus on your goal, whatever that is, and then you can worry about relationships.

rosemilk · Answer

you are super young. no need to worry about this. stop comparing yourself to your friends. that's a hard habit to get out of

Amara_09 · Answer

Don’t be pressured to be in a relationship. You are fine, just find a new hobby and enjoy it.

DARKCLOUD1945X · Answer

Make time unless you are working on a goal like being able to retire by 40years old. Other than that, make time for yourself. If for nothing else other than tour sanity. Maybe a boyfriend for close human contact.

Ironic_Method · Answer

You can choose what to prioritize. It's not that you don't have time, you are choosing not to prioritize relationships. Which is fine if that's what you want.

HaveNoName · Answer

Be proud that you stuck to "The Task". Screw everyone else.

Ironco · Answer

Just relax, have fun being young. It will happen, stop trying so hard, it WILL happen. Next thing you'll know, you'll me married with kids going where did time go. Have fun, enjoy youth... You'll be fine.

SunnyRS · Answer

Don't date someone if it can't be scheduled in your life but make some new friends and maybe you will find someone you like and once you find someone like that you will be able to create time for them.

Agape93 · Answer

Get a pen pal. Someone new to talk to, and you never know how it can go.

RavVid · Answer

If you are putting most time into study than you have to accept that.

qtheoneandonly · Answer

I think you just need to relax and talk to your friends who have boyfriends. I know it can be embarrassing but maybe they can find out why guys don't approach you from their friends.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

I wouldn't rush in to relationship better to do you enjoy life wait till right person comes along. Look pretty cute sure you be fine get a lot of attention

Drumlin2001 · Answer

If it's something you really wanted you'd find the time

exitseven · Answer

I had a busy life too but I made time for a relationship

Ruenella_ · Answer

Read romance novels to fill the void in the meantime. Works for me. 🥲

kevypatyy7 · Answer

Go for it girl. Make some time for yourself

Alex-Snow · Answer

Wait for the right guy at the right time. Don't compare urself to all of ur friends.

Adogdog · Answer

I single too, so I know how you feel. Hold out and find someone good!

Twalli · Answer

Well if you can't date it really shouldn't concern you.

Anonymous · Answer

You're only 19. It's not the end of the world

QuietRunner · Answer

Where are you from? I mean originally.

Iron_Man · Answer

You’re young yet, don’t push it

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