My boyfriend told me he doesn’t deserve me and that a lot men will die for me.. is this a typical break up line that means he doesn’t love me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend told me that it’s better if we broke up bcz he is just not good for me, and his life is miserable ( i did really assure him that no matter what i will stay with him) does that mean he is not confident in himself or that he doesn’t love me.. he also said he wants to live alone all his life but

[Amara_09]

Make him feel confident, Girl your man needs your attention. Care for him, compliment him even if it’s a little thing he did. Make him feel like the GODDAMN KING OF THE HOUSE!


But tread lightly……If he has good intentions then that should make him feel secure with you.

[Asker]

I always do that i always hype him.. i really even told him that i love every detail about him and his life.. im interested in everything he does always listen to him support him give him attention im so flirty.. i reassured him he told me i wish u didn’t like me so u could move on

[Asker]

I also think he is a bit insecure about his life thats why he says that but I don't know.. im so confused

[Thestupidusername]

He probblaby just feels guilty and doesn't wanna hurt you.

[Asker]

Can u explain more

[Thestupidusername]

He just doesn't wanna be in a relationship with you. Why I dont know but he doesn't wanna hurt you.

Am really sorry though. You are young you will find someone else.

[Unit1]

Consider this him discontinuing with you. Try not to change his mind nor salvage the situation. His message is clear.

[BCRanger10]

It sounds like he might be trying to get you down easy. How long have you been together?

[Asker]

About three years

[BCRanger10]

How had things been and when did this start?

[Asker]

We had argument before that.. he said if he left to another country he will leave me, but if he stays he will marry me.. so i told him to block me and stuff.. i took pics shared them and everything i texted him i told him then dont go to another country he said if he won’t until he is forced to ( due some political issues) but if he ever left here he won't marry at all he will stay alone bcz he doesn’t like marriage.. if he stays here he will marry coz his family want that., then he told me that i deserve someone else bcz im better than him im pretty and smart and really a good person however he is also handsome but he doesn’t have stable life and he is sometimes rude

[Asker]

Sorry i said so many unnecessary details but im just out of control 🥹

[BCRanger10]

It sounds like this relationship is unhealthy for both you and him. It sounds like you're not going to get what you want (assuming you want marriage).

[HighValue]

He either thinks he is a disappointment to you, or maintaining a relationship is too difficult and stressful for him.

[Ruenella_]

It means he needs to do a lot of inner work before he can provide a healthy relationship with you.

[Crankor]

That's just an excuse for some other reason

[vicphilips]

Its weird