Does my boyfriend mean that he doesn’t love me?

[Lexih91919]

So my boyfriend has been threatening to break up with me for weeks now and keeps changing his mind. He threatened to breakup with me today and said I don’t love you anymore. He only threatens to breakup up with me when he’s angry. He never initiates anything sexual and our conversations are so dry. I don’t know if he’s saying these things out of anger or he actually fell out of love with me.

Yes

No

[standingUP]

Oh kid I feel so sad for you. I just went and am dealing with a long term breakup. So I feel your pain you are about to realize.
Guys for the most part say what we are thinking as long as we are talking. If we are quiet then the guessing should be questioned.
He wants to leave you.
I know that hurts. just know nobody would say something as awful as that if they were just waiting for a reaction. Some women play games like that , this maybe why you are confused. Or you are just in shock and do not compute reality at the moment.

Accept that God has something else planned for you. something better. Someone deserving of your love. You are going to need to rip off the band-aid and just begin the process of the break up.
Do not hesitate any longer holding on to that dude who just messed up.

I want you to reach out to as many people to help you see that this is best for you to move on and forward. You deserve that.

[standingUP]

thanks for the duo MHO ;)

[EpicIrishman]

He's holding the relationship hostage just to get his way. It's petty, manipulative, and childish. Drop him and find someone who makes the relationship a priority.

[potatoiswhoiam]

He threatens shit. That's enough reason to know this rel is toxic af. If not him, you should be the one leaving it. Otherwise you'd find yourself in this vicious cycle and trust me, if you let him do this, it'll get repeated over and over again. That's just the beginning

[meesegoMoo]

If he can't even put in the effort to speak to you, he doesn't love you. But you should know what love is first.

[DiegoO]

Only he can answer that but the threats you mention are to think about. Also, the fact that he doesn't initiate anything sexual in the relationship.

An angry person thinks loud.

[outside_Toronto]

WTAF... break up with him!!!

[bklynbadboy1]

He seems so distant has he ever been. like this

[Razal]

Seemingly he is drifting away

[lawhawk84]

Break it off