Will I be considered as a mean or arrogant girl if I refuse to purchase a product from a company which rejected my job application?

[Anonymous]

The product is great. I make no question about it. But I don't like to be a customer of a company which rejects my job application. Do you think I'm very arrogant or my emotions are valid and the company doesn't deserve me as their customer and isn't entitled to my money for their product?

[Kaneki05]

I would say it's irrational. It's one thing if you worked for that company and they screwed you over that makes sense but just rejecting an application?
It's like your saying you are entitled to the job because you buy their products which is 100% not how the world works nor how that works.

If I go down to cafe buy a burger then say to them oh you have to hire me now or I won't buy any more burgers... they are just going to look at me as the crazy person I am.
Even if I have experience for the job and they are hiring it still don't give me any right to make such a demand.

[Asker]

I'm not demanding them to give me a job but does it justify if I refuse to buy their product since they rejected my job application through which I felt insulted?

[Kaneki05]

That's the same thing.
Your punishing them for not hiring you which is demanding that they should've.

In fact it's blackmail if one thinks about it. Very low end blackmail but you are giving them a ultimatum based on whether they hired you or not.
Just imagine if everyone did the same thing.

I would say it's petty and just overall confusing logic.

[Asker]

I'm not blackmailing them to give a job. Meaning of blackmailing is completely different than what you mentioned. Did I force them to give me a job or did I use it as a condition for them directly so that they should give me a job? I'm simply expressing my emotion here which is irrelevant to them. As strong as they are not obligated to give me a job I am not obligated to purchase their product either

[Kaneki05]

You are though. Can you really not see how a company wants to sell you something and you refusing to buy it because they won't give you the job is not forcing their hand one way?
This company is probably big enough to not care but imagine if it was a small company, and even big companies still care about increased customers.

There is saying customers are always right for a reason. Because companies are at the hands of their customers in reality without them they are nothing.
So if those customers are getting an idea it's okay to make threats to not buy said products if not hired that's blackmail.

And yes u aren't obligated to purchase but the reason why you ain't is not something the company can ever fix without buying into your demand which leaves them at no options other than give in or just take the loss.

Well with this all be said if this don't make sense to you I ain't going to be able to change your mind to see what I am saying.
You asked the question and this is my answer it's petty, don't make sense and hurts the company for no good reason, along with making an absurd position where for you to be their customer you are demanding they would have to hire you because otherwise you won't be.

[Asker]

You are expressing your own thoughts which aren't same to others. I never threatened them to give me a job then only I purchase their product. I expressed my emotions to others when they asked me why I wouldn't purchase, which is simply an opinion of me which your're mentioning it as a threat. Seriously I wonder if someone expresses that why they don't wanna like someone or something is it a threat? It simply means that they have their reason about why would they not make a choice. It looks like you're forcing me to buy their product because a company losses it's customer and the company hurts. Seriously why should I care about their feelings if they wouldn't care about mine. However I am not forcing them to give me a job and I don't wanna work for that company anymore and I don't wanna purchase their products either. You cannot force me or manipulate me into buying a product from a company which I don't wanna purchase. They can get other customers. I am not obligated to buy their product even if you manipulate me by making wrong statements. I have enough self respect to not but a product from a company which I don't feel comfortable with. You can't force me to give away my self respect either

[Kaneki05]

It's not my fault you don't get it and now are rambling on about some stuff that makes even less. At no point was I manipulating you and I agreed you don't have to buy whatever it is I am saying your rationale for why makes no sense.

Your logic like most people seems to be based on emotional rubbish than logic, think whatever you want all you need to know is my view is your petty and this is dumb, nor makes any sense.

By asking this question you asked for my view which this is my view so like it or don't shrugs.

[Asker]

Your opinion doesn't seem to be right

[Asker]

People have emotions and being without emotions is like being as a robot

[Kaneki05]

Everyone has emotions but letting it cloud one judgements is not a good thing. And if we had just stuck to only thinking on emotions we would of never advanced as far as we have as a society, pretty much society only works thanks to us not.
Emotional thinking many times will lead to irrational choices and actions, it's good for a person to be aware of that and learn from it.

[Asker]

If there are no emotions, people will be accepting the shit they don't deserve. A person who have emotions has self respect, which is important for every individual to have. If someone doesn't feel good about doing something, they aren't obligated to do it. Hence, I'm not obligated to buy anything from a company which insults me. I would ask you the same question. Would you buy a product from a company which humiliated you?

[Kaneki05]

1st I never said no emotions.
2nd I have tons of self respect
3rd If your insulted over an application been turned down that's the definition of petty as far as I am concerned.
4th They didn't humiliate you. At no point did they insult you. It's actually yourself who's feeling insulted for no rational reason.
5th Probably not but if they actually humiliated me but not been accepted to a job is not that. Many are looking for work and get turned down if they were all petty enough to have vendetta's against companies for that the world would be much worse.

If ya don't get these points I have nothing more to say really.

[Asker]

You yourself accept the fact that you don't purchase any product from a company which rejected you. Then why do you say me to buy a product from a company which rejected me from a job? It's my choice not to. You clearly say that having self respect means being petty. Then shouldn't a human being have self respect at all?

[Kaneki05]

Everything you just said wasn't my point at all. Your either really dumb or intentionally missing what I am saying, either way I really don't care. I've explained why it's petty multiple times now not my fault if you don't get it.

[integrale77]

It's a perfectly valid reason based on your experience not to buy there products. As time goes by you might change how you feel but your certainly not mean or arrogant.

[molonski2]

I don't think its arrogant at all , the company that sacked me ( only time it ever happened ) I've never since purchased their products.

[Anonymous]

I won't blame you, my self respect is that high too

[Asker]

Yeah, some of the other opinions on this question are funny enough and it looks like they don't give much importance to self respect. Seriously I cannot agree with their opinions

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[zagor]

That is entirely up to you. If it makes you feel better then do so.

[ChicoFromThe305]

In a way it's kinda like doing too much for no reason although I do understand the vengeful urge to not want to give em shit.