How to build confidence to attract women?

[Anonymous]

I’m 21, a virgin, only been in one “relationship” that didn’t last long… I’ve tried dating apps and nothing seems to help. My confidence is totally depleted and I feel like I’ll never be able to attract women.. I know I need confidence but I don’t feel like I have a lot to be confident about. I take care of myself, workout almost daily, have a good major in college but I still feel unlovable. Any advice?

[Selene1600000]

You’re not unlovable you’re just tying your confidence to results you haven’t had yet. Keep the habits you already have, but start building social reps in real life (clubs, classes, events) and focus on small wins like conversations, not instant dating success. Confidence grows from action and experience, not waiting to feel ready first.

[Anonymous]

not sure but have to keep putting yourself out there , at your age still credible dating options out there , not having experience at 21 is still like ok

[Ironic_Method]

It only needs to work once.

[TiaNour]

Just be yourself