How do you deal with a controlling boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

He wants me to lose weight and he controls what I eat and wear. I’m not complaining. He’s a sweetest man !

I just feel worried because of various things and I worry if I’m not perfect he won’t love me and will leave me.

[laraWM]

He shouldn't do it. You should think twice about your relationship, it's not healthy

[Anonymous]

So he wants you to be healthy and doesn't want you to dress like a slut? What a monster. Whatever, dump him if you feel he's being controlling.

[Asker]

No I am his girl

[swettannie]

what worries you exactly

[Asker]

I’ve had guys just leave me for no real reason and I’m scared he will just be another man who leaves me. I want to be married. I don’t want to be lied to.

[swettannie]

can you dm me?

[Asker]

I added u

[jjj101010]

Sounds bad. U need to tell him to back off

[Asker]

I don’t want to not please him

[jjj101010]

Yeah but he’s controlling, u want a boyfriend not a jailer

[Asker]

No I need his protection I’m not leaving my man!

[jjj101010]

Protection from what

[Asker]

He saved me from a man who was abusing me and basically raped me.

[jjj101010]

Switching a physical abuser for a psychological abuser is not the best option

[Tharithi]

How he saved u

[HelpfulWoman]

LMAO, she removed my comment RIGHTLY calling her a dumbass and him an abusive ass.
The mentally insane continue to be insane

[Tharithi]

U love him?

[Asker]

He’s the best

[Tharithi]

Best? Woahhh why?

[Asker]

He’s sweetest man and protects me and he’s traditional

[Tharithi]

lol is he rich and comes from a well of family? If not he’s just a poor insecure guy who’s hiding behind the curtain of tradition

[Asker]

Wait so you have to be rich to be traditional?

[Tharithi]

No , if he’s poor and traditional it’s out of insecurity. If he’s educated settled and rich and traditional it’s out of choice. I warned u

[slatyb]

You dump them.