As an answer to your question, I will say that you should stand for yourself. If you pretend nothing happened, you will in longer run begin to feel unhappy.
by the way, I think your boyfriend is not good for you. Dump him and find another one. You do not all this negative feeling dumped on you. You are not responsible for that. I am also a rational realist. I sometimes criticize people (depending on the situation). However, realism is different from abuse and violence which is what your boyfriend looks like has a tendency for. Also, negativism, realism and criticism are not the same; they are three different things. You can be critical but not a realist and without thinking logically.
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My first boyfriend was controlling. He watched my weight and dress code. If the skirt is too short or am I eating more than I should. Guess what? I broke up with him because I felt like I wasn’t being myself and that is not love. That is abuse. It might start harmless at first thinking it’s for your own good but does he make you happy? Make you feel loved?
Sounds like you need to tell him how his criticism makes you feel. Also keep in mind that if he reacts negatively to you sharing your feelings or emotions then dump him IMMEDIATELY. It sounds like maybe he has something going on with himself and that is leaking into you.
You should absolutely stand up for yourself. If he's a big enough boy to speak his unwanted opinions at you, he's big enough to get it right back. Sometimes, people require a dose of their own medicine before they start to look at their own behavior. Just be wary about the relationship long-term. Things like this have a tendency to get worse. And, if he doesn't change after you explain how he needs to and why, then leave. If he won't change that toxic trait for you, he doesn't care as much as he says he does.
First let me tell you that I was like this. Unroll a few girls friends told me to chill out. It took me a while it's hard to change , but I did it. Talk with him communicating is key. If he wants to make you the relationship work. He will change not for you not for him for the relationship you two have together.
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I think you should stand for yourself.. if it makes things worse it just means that he doesn’t really care about your opinion. Sorry to say this but I don’t think your relationship is going to last long if it continues on like this.
If you feel like he's treating you like a child than it isn't a balanced relationship. Just the word strict reminds me of a more father child relationship. You can't feel romantic toward someone if you feel you are being over criticized. You don't even know if what you are doing is really outside of the norm.
Strict to an extent is best. I let my curl do 80-90% of what she wants but when her naivety or non realist thinking is coming up I shut it down depending on the situation. A strict boyfriend isn't neccesarily a bad one if he balances it out right. Especially if you have a very naive side you know.
I don't let no man tell me what to do. I don't put up with those "strict rules."
It sounds like there could be sumthin thats troubling him or his not open enough to you. have you tried talkin to him to see if there's anythin troubling him at work or sumthin? as seems like he might be taking snaps at u cuz he's keeping things in and the slightest things set him off.
Tell him he is rude and you don't like it. When he does something that is rude.
Tell him to F off. You’re allowing him to do it! So he will until you stand up to him
He sounds emotionally abusive. You should break up before it gets worse.
Stand your ground! If he can’t take a joke how do you know that he wouldn’t flip out over something that might be a little serious. Sounds like he might be a bit of a control freak.
You should stand up for yourself and if he doesn't stop being a serious Nancy/Buzz kill dump him.
Stand up to him. Be advised, he's not going to change, but he might get the message that you're not a push-over, either.
The first time a guy starts crap like that I’m gone. I won’t put up with it or take that garbage.
You should stand up for yourself, in a relationship opinions are of strong value
Strict bf? translation = abusive boyfriend
punch him in the ear hole!!
It's not healthy the way he is acting
If it is Justin beber, RUN THE F OUT
Spray him with a spray bottle of water.
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Set ground rules for yourself
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