Should I leave a friend with benefits if he’s only seeing me once a month and I want it everyday?

[Anonymous]

He used to give it to me at least twice a week. Now it’s once a month. Should I ditch him? 😞😞 And he was really good in bed, he’s gotten ED as he’s now using a ring, and doesn’t last as long as he used to. 😞😞 Should I move on, and find a new F-W-B.

[Finchie40]

That fact that he doesn’t want to keep you satisfied is a red flag for sure , by him only wanting to have sex with you once a month is a red flag that he is probably getting it elsewhere , he is just using you as a convenience and probably doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and tell you the truth, that he is getting it elsewhere, so yes you are best to not have sex with him anymore period. Unless you like taking the risk of catching an STD and like being used? FWB’s usually only works when both people are on the same page with everything , it sounds like your FWB’s is not on the same page as things were before, especially since i the sex started dying down. When I am in a FWB’s with a girl , her and I are on the same page with everything and honest about everything , if it starts to seem like we aren’t on the same page anymore , I will no longer have sex with her. If I feel she isn’t being honest to me. So you are best to have a sit down talk with him and ask him why all of a sudden he doesn’t want to have sex with you like before? If he can’t give you a straight valid answer , kick him to the curb and find yourself someone that wants to be on the same page with you. My rule in a FWB’s relationship is her and I , only screw each other , if we end up screwing someone else , then we end the benefits part between us , and just remain friends. People that allow themselves to have multiple sex partners are playing with fire , STD’s are not a joke and something to mess with , I never want to experience an STD what so ever. If a girl lies to me and I end up with an STD from her , I will take her ass to court and sue the shit out of her for lying to me. And yes you can sue someone for lying to you about STD’s. Wake up people , you are playing with fire by thinking you can fool someone , you are only fooling yourself

[Xepshunall]

I got ED once but it went away when I found a new woman. I can lay next to a woman and never go soft. I missed a whole night of sleep for this reason. That's why I won't sleep with her again. If you're kissing him, maybe that's why he's rationing the sex.

[Asker]

That makes no sense lol. Is there a different way for you to explain this? 😆😆😆

[Xepshunall]

If you're kissing him, maybe that's why he's rationing the sex.
This is my way of saying that he's running away from it looking like a relationship.
The other part was a king of euphemism to say that he may not have ED but just not be able to get it up for a woman he doesn't like as much as he did when y'all started this arrangement. He may be pulling all-nighters with someone who is making him feel comfortable. I can't get it up for my ex anymore but I can from just kissing a nice woman.

[Asker]

Well he did start a business for the first time in his life, and works 24/7 no days off now.
Which I can see from the fact he looks stressed out now.
Instantaneously falls asleep. 😞😞😞

[chrissykerdock]

to be brief leave the friends with benefits... it seems he's not into you... which isn't a knock on your appeal he may be legitmiatally occupied... i have one and he's crazy for me he comes over 4-5 times a week... we've been seeing each other since march or April of 2020... which i'm probably full of shit to say he's just a friends with benefits after all this time... and after the 1st night he promised an exlusivity which i think is true because his desire for me hasn't waned one bit... yes you want someone a little crazy for you even if he's just a friends with benefits

[mandyfire98]

Yeah if you're not sexually compatible you need to find someone you are with. Especially with a friends with benefits situation. It's all about sex.

[veganrogue]

So the question is, if he were able to fix his ED, would he still be able to give it to you daily? If the answer is yes, then it may be worth salvaging the relationship As a very sexual being, I want it everyday and I certainly would move on. I think just the fact that you are asking, you know what you want and you are not getting it, so time to find a new friends with benefits.

[Asker]

Ok I agree but let me give you this scenario.

Your girl with benefits, she has the best walls you’ve ever had..
Even if she just gives it to you once a month..
You’d risk leaving her, knowing that the next few walls that you meet might not be as tight? they might not make the same sounds this one makes.. the next p—ssy will be completely loosened up, will smell terrible.

The moans your current girl makes you will never hear again…?
No one in the future will ever sound like her…?

Knowing the next few characters you meet will not be as great as expected or as you thought….. ?

[veganrogue]

You are speaking in hypotheticals, I'm speaking in reality. Even if 'my girl with benefits' had a snapper (a mythical pussy with incredible muscle control that will rhymically squeeze my longfellow, giving me unknown exquisite pleasure, sort of like a dragon or a unicorn, but pretty, pink über tight and wet), I wouldn't stay in that relationship. Luckily I've only experienced a couple of smelly ones but that was to do with yeast infections, and I'd roll the dice that the next one is clean and fresh. I find most moaning sexy, but you get the idea. You are young and have plenty of time to find the guy that's all of the things you want plus daily sex with a certified stiffy. Sure you'll miss him, but daily orgasms are good break-up therapy. You can always dwell in the past with fond memories of your current guy, but it won't get you to a better destination if you are always looking backwards.

[veganrogue]

*rhythmically

[Asker]

😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

[Staximus]

If you want sex every day you need a boyfriend, genius. Not some wishy washy friends with benefits bullshit. An "friends with benefits" is not going to want to invest that kind of time or have that kind if commitment. Time to grow up and get in a real relationship.

[Rickyboy100]

Important question is... can he satisfy you? Perhaps he should not masturbate between than he could last longer. Is his dick size good for you... which other women has he too? Talk to him open what you expect! Give him time to do things like you want.. if not search for someone else

[FenixG45]

Depends. How much does he mean to you? If he's just a D attached to a body, then NEXT!
If he's MORE than that, then find out what's causing his ED and help him if you can.

[Nikki1989]

Well, there is not much in the way of benefits there. You could do much better.

[KrakenAttackin]

Just add a few more fuck buddy's, what could go wrong.

[Asker]

I’ve gotten too comfortable with my current one. I’m afraid to start all over and strip for a new one. 😞😞 I’ve been with just him for 4 years now

[KrakenAttackin]

Time to upgrade.

[Rc2020]

Yeah and then hit me up give it to you every day 😍

[Summeroflove]

Yeah. This is stupid

[Anonymous]

I just prayed for you.

[Asker]

I don’t believe in Santa Clause 🥱. Sad that you do at 45+

[Opinion Owner]

I spent most of my life as a non believer.

[Asker]

Oh. So now that death is getting closer and closer you become a believer?
🤡🤡🤡🤡 clowns like you need to end up in the very hell that you now believe in.

[Opinion Owner]

God bless you.

[Asker]

The two or three times I’ve ever been in church, cause I belonged to the cult of sheep 🐑…..
The few times I’ve been In Church it’s been filled with old raisins, wrinkle bags. Who are getting closer to death. And they think they deserve heaven after slutting it up in their youth.

😆😆😆😆😆😆😆🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕

[Opinion Owner]

It's no different to anything else in life that has both the good and the bad. I do not got to Church but my friend seems to have found a decent one. The age on this profile is incorrect.

[Asker]

Oh you meant “praying for me”.
As in “you wish that I can find a good dick to fuck, one that actually works”. “Hopefully better than the last?”

OMG, THANKYOU 🫶 I APPRECIATE IT. REALLY. THAT WAS REALLY NICE OF YOU. HAPPY HOLIDAYS

[Opinion Owner]

I was praying for you concerning peace, happiness, love, wisdom and contentment. Happy Holidays to you too. Take care :)

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's your decision to make

[fuddly]

You need more friends
Do you limit to 1?

[Drumlin2001]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

No...