Women are eating my money. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I'm not getting any s e x and they don't write me.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. If you think money is supposed to result in sex, you need to enter into a financial arrangement with a prostitute. You are much more likely to get what you have bargained for if you deal with a businesswoman instead of an "amateur."

2. Women do not get your money without your consent, unless they steal your wallet or hack into your bank account. Why are you allowing this to happen?

[Asker]

They expect me to pay for everything and they say only cheapskates or faux men don't pay up.

[OlderAndWiser]

So why do you keep choosing the same kind of women to date? And why do you expect them to fuck you just because you paid for their meal.

[Asker]

What should I do then when they expect to be paid for? Not to date at all and go to prostitutes instead?

[OlderAndWiser]

What's bothering you: that you must pay for dates, or that you aren't getting sex?

[Asker]

That I must pay for dates and then I get ghosted.

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe you should plan first dates at a more casual and less expensive place, like a coffee date.

[Asker]

Yeah, maybe i should try that.

[Screenwriter]

What do you mean? Are you constantly taking them out to dinner and they then dump you?

Or, are you buying them lots of things and aren't getting any sex after all these, umm, "donations."

You are suffering from "gold-digger itis." These women want to be wined and dined with no strings because they think they're prizes.

Find a woman you like who doesn't mind paying her own way FROM THE START, and who doesn't mind wining and dining YOU on occasion.

Start off on an even keel, and that's where you'll remain. Clearly, these women think you're rich.

And they're Shameless.

Keep looking.

[Asker]

Yeah, it's those gold diggers, that expect us to pay and they use us for money.
They say only cheapskates or faux men don't pay up and only real men pay for everything.

[Screenwriter]

These women are called 'Prostitutes." Don't fall for such shit. There is no excuse for a women who has a job that pays her expenses to not pay for herself on first dates.

They should all be "Dutch," to begin with so NO ONE has regrets. The woman doesn't feel obligated to give up anything to "pay" for the date, and the man doesn't feel screwed if the date is a failure and he's spent $150 at a fancy restaurant. Or even $50 at a good burger place for drinks and food.

It's the woman who's a cheapskate to expect such stuff. This isn't 1950. These are lazy, cheap women.

[Asker]

This is a relief to hear coming from a pink account. I've seen entire swarms of pink accounts claiming men should pay. And if men do that, they'll end up like me until now. So what you say makes sense to me. They are lazy, cheap women indeed. They are even worse than prostitutes because prostitutes at least deliver something as it was agreed upon prior.

[Screenwriter]

Look, I had a friend who was this way and it baffled me 50 years ago! She went out on dates with men she had NO INTEREST IN. And here was her comment. I remember it clear as day: Free Meal!

She was a beautiful, sharp, funny, talented woman, but she'd been raised this way, clearly. We were 19 years old or 20 at the time. I was, and I say this with emphasis, SHOCKED at her attitude.

My mom always encouraged me to pay my own way, always have cab fare in case something happened, and never engage in some kind of "dinner date" where the man expected you to pay in pussy. (mom was a good Catholic girl and did not express herself that way.. I'm a bit of a fallen Catholic... but this is online and I can say what she meant...)

[Asker]

That's an interesting story. This shows, that this trend of using men for free meals isn't something new and that some "girls" got into this idea. What this also shows is that not all girls believe men should be suffering from risking paying and then left to be ghosted in oblivion.

If people would be more direct with their intentions and have understanding for the other party's risks of being screwed over and people being taught how to date normally, then dating wouldn't be such a pain in the ass for men, women and the transgender.

[Screenwriter]

A-men.

[Apple1996]

But have you tried feeding them food instead of money?

[Asker]

That's exactly what happened.

[Apple1996]

They ate food?

[Asker]

that i paid for

[Apple1996]

You should have hunted and gathered like a real man

[Sonorous]

5 easy steps
Step 1: Identify that you are indeed a simp
Step 2: Believe that you can truly stop being a simp
Step 3: Stop simping
Step 3: Cut out women who want you to simp
Step 5: Be around more women who don't require that you simp

[iFarted]

Learn to court them with your personality and social skills not your money...

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Stop giving them money.

[slatyb]

Stop sending money.

[Yannae]

Not feed them money.

[RevengeofLadyJ]

Drop them