Do women want your money?

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Also are you OK with that?

Sarahr123 · Accepted Answer

I grew up without a father so obviously you can imagine we weren’t at all well off. My mother just about managed to raise us on her own but I had to start working when I was very young to be able to get the more expensive things I wanted. I have NEVER relied on a man for anything. Whatever I wanted no matter how expensive, I saved up for it and bought it myself. The appreciation you have for a thing you worked hard for lasts an eternity whereas something that just lands in your lap you don’t appreciate.

A good woman doesn’t go after the richest man. She will choose to marry a man who is loyal, loves her, respects her and treats her well. Of course money is important but many women are like me and are not greedy for a lot of money and are not status hungry. I am okay with a middle class life living in a little three-four bedroom family home with 2-3 children and going on occasional holidays and buying or gifting something nice occasionally. I think it’s much more rewarding and there is more love to go around in that setting than being super rich or getting married to a rich person. I don’t want a rich husband. Of course I would be happy if he is doing well for himself but I don’t need a multimillionaire.

noemiii · Accepted Answer

Me personally I could never date a guy for money. It’s not mine so why would I care? All of the men I genuinely liked I honestly wouldn’t care if they were broke as long as they were moving towards something, I’d date them regardless.

Now, to be fair a lot of men I’ve seen assume all women will be wooed by their money. I can’t even begin to count how many times a man has tried to play himself up to me when I was just speaking to them from a financial standpoint.

I even had a guy with a Bentley let me drive it once while he was away. I just assumed he was being nice. When I didn’t reciprocate his attempts at wooing me with finances he cut me off, when all he had to do was just say he was interested in me lol.

RangerBlue22 · Accepted Answer

Yes and no. But definitely more yes unfortunately.

Yes because many women subconsciously still expect men to provide from them due to thousands of years of evolution. Then there are other woman who are proud freeloaders (gold diggers). Gold diggers feel no shame about being worthless and a direct contradiction to feminism by mooching off men.

And also since men “earn more” due to the “gender wage gap” guess who is paying more in taxes? Also guess who mooches off and feels more entitled to taxpayer funded entitlement programs? It’s no coincidence that women are more susceptible to the socialist ideals. Throughout history they expected to depend on somebody.

No because not all women are freeloaders. Also no because weak willed men enable freeloaders as well. I think deep down these enablers know what’s going on. But they want to delude themselves into thinking the woman really likes them. Freeloaders can be good actresses.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

I said no, but I answered to quickly... I should have said STOP ENERALIZING!!!

Seriously I hate it when woman do this to men, and I hate it when men do it women... but honestly its hard to avoid. I mean you can only go to the well so many time and get the same results.

By and large though I make 6 figures, my house is paid off, and I drive a nice car, and gentleman and treat them with respect... but in general, the women I dated could care less. There is always something that's not good enough or makes it not work. Even when I can accept them for who they are, it never seems to work equally both ways.

But it's not women or man problem in general... it's human nature in general. Wealth and sex, has a way of making people look past certain things... for time. But their true nature eventually always comes out.

coachTanthony · Answer

Most men who have NO money are the ones who complain about women wanting their 2010 beat up old Honda. lol

catiecatie · Answer

So I’m considered old fashioned when it comes to talking to guys in a way. I say in a way because if I do think a guy is cute I will go up and shoot my shot. I haven’t with this one guy I have a big crush on yet as I don't know if I’m going to go with him for my flight schooling yet but we will see. He seems interested but I think he wants to keep it professional. I think that yes the guy can pay for one date and the girl can pay for the next and go back and forth. Or the guy can pay for a meal and the girl can pay for a movie. Stuff like that. I wouldn’t want my man going broke. Same goes with my friends. When we go out to the bars we each pay for a round. Like hey I got this first bar and then we go down the row. If one of my friends couldn’t pay for it then we would still cover for them as we know they wouldn’t fuck us over.

glennos89 · Answer

Sadly there are a lot of woman out there chasing material wealth and money. They don't seem to understand that love and being rich are 2 different things that can't be combined. Neither do they understand it will bring them no happiness but only temperary sathisfaction which won't last

But luckily their are still enough good woman who do understand love isn't about finding a guy with money and I also know some woman in my own personal life who are the opposite of trying to find a guy with money. They are trying to help their partners financially ruin themselves sadly

Try not give up hope on woman because there are enough of them out there that aren't searching for a wallet with money that is attached to a guy. Just try to dodge the ones that are gold digging

Anonymous · Answer

I think all woman want your money and there's a spectrum of how badly they want it and why.

Some unapologetically just want cash and favors.

Some are insecure about it for various reasons, sometimes including they want a genuine relationship more than the money. I think most woman fall in this area of the spectrum.

I think it's just human nature. There are plenty of equally terrible truths about woman just like there are for men. Society ain't ready for pretty much any of it though.

So like an emotional teenager, people are unwilling to look at things objectively and pull themselves away from their reasoning.

Also a lot like an old motional teenager, people will say nothing good will come from these conversations.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Do ALL women want a guy's money? No.

Do SOME women want a guy's money? Yes.

Is there some secret code or formula for determining which women want your money? Yes.

What is that secret code or formula? Date them, observe their behavior, get familiar with them, spend time with them. It will eventually become evident.

Isn't there any easier way to determine which women want your money? No. People - including women - are not that simple.

THE END

Babygirl_S · Answer

As a woman, I feel offended that all women are being labelled as gold diggers. I am attracted to handsome faces and personality makes me stay. I have heard it so many times on this website that men's resources and women's looks are the things that matter. That isn't how it works for me. I wouldn't date an unattractive rich man.

Affluent men also need love. They shouldn't be discriminated against because they also deserve women who would want them even without all of their money.

Rosexøxø · Answer

No I want MY money. The money I deserve. I'm somewhat sentimental, at times, with MY money. So much so, I could almost initial it. Hate when cashiers give me money which smells like smoke, or other. Then I know just how much it's not my money *rolls eyes. Stuffs wallet. Waits to get rid of it.*

richardcory · Answer

People in general want money. I don't see any obvious difference between men and women.

50 years ago, it was a lot more difficult for women to earn a lot of money, so their best path to money was through a relationship / marriage. Today they can earn their own, and most do

Billlewis · Answer

I must be on a fin domme kick today... lol. I'm a firm believer that a woman should always have as much control and authority over the men in her life as possible. When I begin a relationship serving a woman, once I'm satisfied that she can handle that kind of arrangement and that she's a good person, I try to give her almost unlimited authority to dominate that ass:)

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Why do broke guys always cry about women wanting their money. Have you noticed that men who actually have money never say this, and they want to provide and spoil their partners? Lol

mstoxicprincess · Answer

i don’t want a man’s money. but i want a man with money, but not for his money (if that makes sense)
i feel like a guy that’s successful is just smarter than someone who isn’t and so i respect that…
so it isn’t that i want his money- i just look up to those that have money due to their success.

stepyo99 · Answer

Women will say no, but their actions speak louder. But to be fair, women being attracted to displays of wealth and social influence is no different than men wanting youth and beauty. They're both superficial indicators of the person's ability to fulfill their own role.

UnknownSwede · Answer

Of course those women exist, even if very few would admit that they are with someone for their money. They will say it's something else like his personality or how he is so inspirational with a drive.
But most women don't go after someone for their money.

Although those who do, but try to hide that they do:

Twalli · Answer

Do  they  want  my  money, not really. I don't have a lot and it's not worth it for them to go after it when there are guys with more money. Even then some girls don't really care that much about money and focus more on love and such.

Cathy7734 · Answer

My Uncle is a wealthy man. He said he hasn't come across that many gold diggers mainly because he doesn't throw his money out there. But most of the women he dates enjoy his financial generosity. For example, on a date he pays for everything.

hiyamotherfers · Answer

I dont have the time to try to get your money. I work to hard for my own things and you can ask some of my friends I turn down the offers they give me

imawfulatusernames · Answer

First of all no. I will also say I’ve never seen a man with money complain about this, I’ve dated extremely well off men and completely broke men never matter to me. Yknow the only ones who were concerned about money or assumed it mattered? The broke guys, the more well off men knew I cared about far more. This is a self confidence problem in men not an actual dating issue

Pixiebih · Answer

Depends! Some do the majority don’t, the some that do are usually girls that sell their nudes and some even go to say that they are single mothers or they have no money to buy food or both. I can understand single mothers, I sure as hell couldn’t survive being a single father in todays world but I will say one thing all those girls had in common was they all had very nice clothes and jewelry so 🤨🤨.

ohsheeT · Answer

Women have good jobs women have their own money and that's the last thing we want to do is be dependent on somebody especially a guy no women are smart they have money they have a bank account and that's life

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

The non gold digging types want safety, security, stability, maturity, funny and emotionally sound men that are not going to beat on them, cheat on them, and emotionally and/or psychologically abuse them.

Anonymous · Answer

Even if women don’t want a man’s money. Many doctors and scholars have pointed out that more women in the west with good incomes are actually more miserable today than in the past. Women who chase this world will suffer from nervous breakdowns, resentment from childhood, anger towards men, trying to materialize her lifestyle to act cool when her morals and ethics suck.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.

MemeSupreme · Answer

yeah there's gold diggers out there but not every one of us is one. i do not want a guy's money and i struggle even letting guys i'm with buy me stuff or pay for things.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes , it's a necessary but not sufficient condition for men to be considered for relationships. All women want a man with money or earning potential in very near future. You can be kind , hardworking , non cheater , feed and take care of your women while she's sick but she will still go for men with more money than you, if she can have that option.

Wild_princess · Answer

Personally i don't want anyone's money. i Know i am gonna earn more than i need so why the hell i need someone's else money

YourExLover69 · Answer

Yes... Encountered many golddiggers in life... They want me to be their ATM... that's why I'm single.

sadgirl0210 · Answer

Some women do some women dont but the truth is a true ass woman who truly loves u will want u for u and nothing of what u have and dont have.. and a true woman wouldn't want ur money

NathanDavis · Answer

the banks want my money...

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

They may want it. Or want the security it provides.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

obviously! otherwise my male friends and relatives wouldn't be complaining to me about how they are always broke and envy me for being single

Anonymous · Answer

As a woman, I never want to be dependent on a man for money. I would never want to ask him for money. A woman should be financially independent.

Anonymous · Answer

We don't only want a man for money, but we obviously would prefer he have money.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

As a woman, if I need more money I'll figure out how to make more money without resorting to gold digging.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Yeah Men also want my money  I want their gold and silver so will part with the money to make more money

Wwwyzzerdd · Answer

Women don’t like men who don’t have financial mobility. If he’s poor it’s viewed as him being a bad provider.

DextroShade · Answer

Women: We deserve to make as much money as men! Also women: He doesn't make more than me? He's a loser!

In_Trance · Answer

Some do, some don't

LiamJHayden · Answer

Some probably do, but those are easy to spot and avoid.

Pudsmucker · Answer

Not all women are gold diggers. But they do want to spend your dollar

SahuShekhar · Answer

You need money to live, lead a good life. If someone has figured it out. What's wrong in that?

Anonymous · Answer

Women want security and a man who provides for her and her children. That doesn't make her a gold digger. That term is so overused.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

As a whipping 85% of consumer choices are made by women, it's pretty clear women are money centered.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Women want the money by any means! Some go collect it with hard work.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I don't. I have my own money.

Tgoodwin · Answer

Time is the most valuable thing in the world. It makes me sad most people are superficial.

Mimi_758 · Answer

Nope I am never with a guy for his money!!

Anonymous · Answer

No I have plenty of my own.

Kaneki05 · Answer

I want their's so lol.

MementoMori777 · Answer

I'm sure they exist but I've seen many that don't

Iron_Man · Answer

What do you think?

shades777 · Answer

All roads seem to say yes

grega239 · Answer

can't they get a job?

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Yes, most women are gold diggers

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Yes they do. I'm used to it.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes gold digger or prostituting or divorce

mommymommymommy · Answer

Yeah No

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