Guys girls I need a boyfriend where can I find one?

[Anonymous]

Social recluse. Help me on this.

I just want someone to talk to I'm going mad.

PS: I'm pretty in real life, not drop dead gorgeous but definitely pretty.

No one ever asks me out. I get stares double takes etc no one actually asks me out.

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Are guys usually kind as in you can just approach them? Really?

[Anonymous]

You can pretty much find us everywhere. The problem is most women don't give a lot of good men chances because they aren’t the best looking man on this earth. Or he isn’t making six figures, or he’s not chiseled among a lot of other things. The reality of all this is that you’re competing w a lot of younger girls. Most times men are going to go for someone younger. The other issue is that you say you get looks. But are those looks of genuine interest or looks of lust, purely sexual? Honestly i think by now if you’re pretty as you say you are someone would have approached you at least by now. I couldn’t say w out actually seeing what you look like.

[Asker]

Really? I feel like I've often found men in their late twenties and up prefer other women around the same age.

The younger ones, I think while they're more attractive, aren't on the same wavelength as the older ones.

[Opinion Owner]

That may be true to a degree. But are these genuine relationships? Or is it just sex. Men will get a most women if they’re cute enough, but that’s usually sexual. Men prefer younger women, because yes more attractive, more fertile since most men want to have a family. Younger women seem to appreciate things more than older women. Which ok bitter, older women may have resulted from men fucking around on her. When you save wavelength what exactly do you mean?

[Asker]

I mean, not everyone's had their heart cruelly broken by a man just because they're slightly older lol.

I guess the thoughts are the same. If they're too young, again your points are true about family planning and more attractive but they're too young.

I think after a certain point men and women both take care of each other I'm assuming. That doesn't happen if one partner is a lot younger than the other.

[Opinion Owner]

It depends on how she was raised. There are some younger women I’ve met that seem more like wife material compared to other girls who are young that just want to party. Me me me, what can a man do for me. I think genetically it’s hardwired in men to seek that. Just as I think it’s genetically wired in women to seek the best male suitor who can protect them physically as well as provide for them.

[RavVid]

What is going to be a problem is if you are not outgoing and if you are a recluse you probably aren't. I think we are more inclined to approach outgoing girls because it is easier.

I think there are good reasons why traditionally society has men approaching women rather than the reverse. If out going it would be easier. A guy might think you are after something. If you ask somebody for something the immediate mental response can be to say no.

If you tell us more about your personality I think we can give better advice.

[tzdc21]

Then why don't you ask some guys out? There are many reasons why guys aren't willing to ask out girls in public, and despite what you may think, the fear of rejection is only part of the reasons why. Instead of waiting, you go for the first move. Nothing wrong with that at all.

[DarkWinterNights]

Statistically you can probably find them anywhere. I suggest in person though, because dating apps will make you lose faith in humanity. Try to find hobbies and interests that you enjoy that are more male dominated. Make eye contact, smile, try to break out of your shell and talk to random people. Don’t overthink it. Get a couple really good ice breaker jokes to tell. Most people are pretty absorbed in their own lives, but they won’t bite.

[SunnyRS]

Well you posted it in the wrong place now.
Some will share there opinions now, saying that they can be the one.
But honestly speaking you can find love anywhere you just have to be confident enough to approach them if you feel an attraction towards someone, give it a shot it might work.

[coolbreeze]

Try online dating and you will get guys giving you all the attention you need. Just try to watch out for scammers and bots.

[Yannae]

Everywhere you go. You can find him almost anywhere. Just don't let your looks be the only thing that speaks for you as a partner for a relationship, or you'll find either nobody or a guy who isn't going to be good to you.

[Yannae]

If you really want one, you also want to approach him instead.

[Likes2drive]

Guys are everywhere, just involve yourself in stuff that guys do, I never find anyone either but I don’t go out much and dating apps suck it seems

[Asker]

No one ever asks me out.

[Likes2drive]

Maybe they think you are taken because you’re pretty

[strateguy632]

either coworker or college students between classes and at parties

[Drumlin2001]

Maybe start by not hiding behind anon. Maybe someone on GaG would be interested in having a conversation

[Nice222]

Get involved with a community organization or take classes. You will meet interesting people doing activities like that. Or do volunteer work like Red Cross or local library or join a local club.

[RedInnocent68]

Yes, just ask. Most guys are chickenshit towards attractive girls, except the players who you probably wouldn’t want.

[iFarted]

Ohh I'm sure you'll have plenty of suitors on GaG lulz

[HAAAAAAAAAAAAA]

just download a dating app (just avoid the hookupy ones)

[Asker]

Which are the hookupy ones?

[HAAAAAAAAAAAAA]

tinder

[Anonymous]

You have to approach guys

MeToo statutes put the end to that for guys

[sawno]

Approach guys that seem interesting

[Asker]

How? I can’t just walk up to a guy in the mall and approach him. Can I?

[sawno]

Of course you can, guys are usually kind.

[Asker]

And say what?

[collie22]

What things do you like to do?

[Asker]

I like reading

[collie22]

That's nice what kind of stuff do you read?

[KrakenAttackin]

Check your friend zone.

[Asker]

Recluse here

[KrakenAttackin]

Dating apps.

[Asker]

For some reason I don’t get much matches. Is that odd?

[KrakenAttackin]

Your profile must suck. Do some research about how to put together a decent profile that won't just attract fuck boys.

[boobliker]

out in the street, in the maul.

[shortster]

There are usually plenty of guys that are single.

[Djaay]

It doesn't help being an anonymous.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

TRY eBay!

[ChicoFromThe305]

Go outside more

[Asker]

I do and people stare but no one asks me out

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well it won't happen as often as movies make it seem lol

[kareka]

Heyyy how old are u?