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Just hear people talk about it all the time. Whats your view of yourself?
Im ugly so that makes me lower but I have strong morals and show care by actions!
Higher end, there's always a line of men willing to give up pretty much everything to date me, spoil me, and wait on me hand and foot. I've always been able to demand anything I want because I can't be replaced.
Lots of men think I'm out of their league and they wouldn't even have a chance. They are right. I'm very picky. Even with rejecting thousands, I've barely been single for long since kindergarten. I believe the longest was 2 years in middle school. I can go on a dating app and pick a guy and be on a date within 1-3 days and in a new high quality relationship with a new wonderful man in no time if I were single. I can't dress up in public without men hounding me and women going out of their way to compliment me as well. I'm very shy, so it's overwhelming.
They've said it's because I'm gorgeous, have an incredibly sexy body, highly intelligent, my demeanor goes between cute and regal, I'm not really into drinking, smoking, or drugs, very kind and selfless with people I care about, sweet to anyone who is sweet to me, fierce with people who are unkind to people I care about, incredibly loyal to a fault, brutally honest, open with people, open minded, usually smiling when not lost in thought, silly, ambitious but chill at the same time, etc. I am not high maintenance, but I do demand more performance wise of people I'm with. I'm a people pleaser with a compersion fetish, so I go out of my way to please my partners in bed. I also enjoy giving my family and friends wonderful experiences just to see their faces look happy. It doesn't hurt that I've aged very well and very slowly. People say I look even better now than I did when I was younger.
All of that together seems to make me a very unique and rare type of highly desirable person. I can charge people high fees just to hang out with me. No sex or anything.
All of that being said, without men and women constantly reinforcing the idea that I'm so valuable dating wise I would just think I'm average. I'm used to myself, so I don't see the appeal until people point things out.
Well thats a very confident way of thinking!:)
Am glad you have it great in dating. Thanks for sharing!
I don't even know what it means ffs :D
I'm smart, independent and insolent. If I look for a man I think I will find someone who will share similar values :D
But how to put it into market value? I have no fucking idea :D Not that I really care :D
Good way of thinking!:)
High definitely. I choose to be very strict when it comes to such stuff. My religious and moral obligations are big reasons for it. But I have stopped dating since I became more religious. I do plan in marrying in future God willing and I prefer it (to know her before marriage) to be done in a permissible way as per Islam.
As for my looks, I get complimented often but as it's subjective, all I care about is that my future spouse likes the way I'm. At the end of the day we will have to count each other's wrinkles so looks shouldn't matter a lot 😂 although it's reasonable for them to be considered within reasons.
Thats great! Am happy for you
Thank you!
m Never really thought about it, it’s not like I have struggled but I tend to just go casual with life and don’t get concerned if I am single for a bit. I am not long out of a long term relationship which means being single is pretty good at moment. A Broad average, I would hate that having a decent salary means more than other qualities.
Thats good! Take your time:)
Yeah no real rush, last thing I want is someone fixated on money or under some impression they are hugely beautiful and I must date them.
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I'm on the very bottom of the lower end because I'm currently unemployed, live with my mom, don't drive and have rather low self esteem due to all the above. My looks are average, so once I get that all sorted, I should be in the middle bracket. And yeah I said that all not anonymously because I own it 😂
You are above average in looks if you ask me. But yeah the other usually is looked as a down side esspecially women looking at men.
Good that you own it😂
I think average, or a bit above average, not high end.
The market for males that are in good health and are well off is pretty good as we get older.
Males seem to die younger so there are less of us out there and more women to choose from because they tend to live longer.
On a side note that is starting to slowly even out according to those that keep track of that stuff.
It is just a fact of life.
Sounds like you arw well aware:)
Between the middle and low I think but to be fair, I'm not really trying, I don't ask anyone out or message anyone, none of that, I'll probably start when I get a more stable job and have a few other steps I gotta take care of before committing to a relationship.
Sounds like a good plan
So what's your plan tiny? 🙂
Die young and alone asap:) unless some miracle happens ofcorse
Tiny stop being so emo 😡
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I'm really not sure on which end of this spectrum i fall under.
I mean Andrew Tate gets multiple women simultaneously (all for short term however) and I get zero.
Do girls think I am out of their league or am I really that undesirable? I remember being called handsome.
Maybe they are intimidated by you. How often do you ask someone out?
Well why spend money? If she is worth it you dont need too
Its not like i want to do what this guy does. I'd be more laid back, less mumbly and not have any alcohol in my hand.
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Haha yeah I get it. Well if you never try it problaby won't happen but I get it takes a lot!
Yeah. Nobody taught me how to get a girlfriend until I asked my friends "how did you get a girlfriend?" and their responses are different. There are multiple ways to get girls.
I have to go out and stop being held back by these "phantomic yet real" psychological barriers to go bother the girls.
Yeah I know. I kinda have the same problem but opposite. I just freeze when a guy comes up to me and I can't hear anything.. smh.
What answers do they give you tho?
Wait. You freeze up? What can boys do so that you are not frozen up? Keep pushing? I get the feeling, that I might encounter that in a girl. Just so I know.
They found girls on online dating, social media, on the streets, at train stations, at the university in class, in dance clubs... basically where there are girls (they said) girlfriends can be found. I don't feel bold enough to go full "pick up artist" and almost aggressively asking the girls out. It's just not me. However I do need their boldness or else I'll be jerking off until I die.
If he moves less i think im less likely to freeze lol. Or like if he keeps his hands behind his back. Dont get too close. Maybe even wave a few meters back before so dont suprice me too close lol..
Yeah but at least you are aware of it so its good
Wow, your modesty is very captivating. I've noticed you downplay your beauty a lot. What makes you so humble about it? Is there a special reason behind it, and does it ever give you a charming sense of embarrassment? I can't help but notice your humility despite your obvious beauty.
My obvious beauty? Have you seen me?😭
Thanks but no I just am aware..
Hey, you know, I can see it – you're truly beautiful. I've got a bit of Swedish in me, so I get it. I sense there might be some emotions swirling around, but I want you to know, everything's going to be just fine. Trust me on that. Life has its ups and downs, but hey, we've got a bit of that resilient Swedish spirit in us, right? So, chin up, and let's tackle whatever comes your way. You've got this. Swedish girls are the best looking and kindest women.
Hmnnn... thank you anon:)
I think I'm beautiful. But that's not what makes you valuable. I'm made in the image of God and I follow his teachings. That is the real beauty. Jesus teachings. 😊
I want to date a man that thinks like me on these views.
Thats great!
I am old so I would say I am in the rear end of dating.
Lolll
I'm on the low. But that's only because I'm black and I'm attracted to white guys. If it wasn't for that, I would say average.
I dont think you are on the low:(
Well I dont think race has anything to do with it. But you choose how to view it. I think most men care more about other stuff rarher than race
Oh okay
@wolfcat87 No, I don't think so. It just makes my love life harder.
There's nothing wrong with white men, but I understand why most black women won't date them.
Where are those guys? I can't find them. 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@wolfcat87 Well, I'm not in the US. Perhaps that's why I don't see these men, at least not in real life. I know that interracial couples aren't uncommon in the United States.
And I'm not trying to find dates and I'm not choosing men. I'm not in the best position to be in a relationship.
@wolfcat87 Yes, it is. I've seen some couples from the US on YouTube, I feel a bit jealous of them Lol
I'm an 18 year old virgin, I've heard those are qualities guys like. You know, youth and purity. But I'm average looking so I dunno 🤷♀️
Yeah thats great!:)
Your bio says "Weakness make you lack morality.". Mind elaborating on that? I find that to be an interesting thought.
People who dont stand for whats right. Most people are too weak minded to risk themself to be a good person. Most people take the easy way out. Which in by itself makes you evil.
You're right, but I think the definition of strength is key here. My views are somewhat divided because I came across a study suggesting that people's moral actions are not driven by morality itself, but rather by fear of consequences. For instance, the societal repercussions of immoral behavior, like the risk of arrest for stealing, often deter people more than their personal moral convictions. Most avoid stealing due to these potential consequences, not because they adhere to their moral principles. However, I do think that acting morally and justly is generally more challenging. Take the scenario of being married yet feeling attracted to someone else. It's simpler to reciprocate the flirtation and succumb to temptation. In contrast, it's more difficult to consciously distance yourself from that relationship to uphold the integrity of your marriage. Clearly, one choice is right and the other is wrong.
Yes I agree. But sadly a lot of times people think doing nothing makes them innocent but it doesn't.
I'm not cheap.
I'm not desperate.
I'm not naive.
So the market request for my type is extremely low.
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Being older means you have fewer potential partners to choose from. Just a fact. A lot of men die before 65 and healthy ones after that age. Slim pickings. Also, the healthy ones are usually partnered.
u all I can say is, that I've never seen dating as an issue
Thats good. Then high id guess
There isn't a high or low end, its more like trying to find shoes that fit.
One person's perfect fit is another's garbage.
I agree actually but just asked cause its so much talking on this
Yeah dating isn't even a market tbh, its more a scavenger hunt for rare treasure that almost no one else wants.
Yup. Its better to die young and alone
No, its better to get married to a perfect match, but my perfect match isn't going to be most people's perfect match.
Alright that could work too i guess
I get attention but it's not like they're throwing me a red carpet everywhere I go.
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In some aspects I'm top tier and in some low so frankly I have no idea where I fall on the spectrum.
In what ways are you top tier and which ones low?
I’m ugly and nobody respects me, if I walk into a room im the one being made fun off never heard anyone else being insulted
You aren't ugly at all lol
I’m a 4 or maybe 5/10 which is ugly for guys. Plus I’m effeminate
Lol why the self hate?
What do you mean, it’s not hate it’s how people treat me
Damn. You need new people
So thanos snap Earth?
I am still curious why you think so lowly of your looks. What you might think is ugly might look beautiful for others 😊.
Unless you are objectively ugly which I don't think you are at all haha.
I wonder what you look like
middle, hehe
i guess that is where sex workers go
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Yup:)
Thats true
I normally have 4-5 dates a week. I never have a problem with dating.
Good for you
Thats great
Supply and demand. If you flood the market with desperation, your value tanks.
OH LORD... I COULDN'T BE ANY LOWER. NO GIRL WANTS ANYTHING TO DO WITH ME AND I DON'T BLAME THEM.
Why is that?
would say higher end of average maybe. i'm not hot but i'm not the blandest person ever either
Market?
We are not pieces of meat.
😂 agree
I'm a piece of meat... and bone, and metals, and salts, and water, and organs, and electricity, and unknown spacetime irregularities.
lower than and Ants knee
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Not sure, average I guess
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