Damn, that does sound kinda sketchy on his part. I can see why you'd be worried. But at the same time, constantly hounding him with questions probably isn't gonna help either.
Here's what I think - your suspicion isn't totally crazy given his vague answers. But pestering him won't get you anywhere good. I'd try coming at it from a calmer, more understanding place instead of angry accusations.
Maybe have an honest talk, say you're sorry for getting heated, but explain why certain things made you feel unsure. Ask to see the group just to put your mind at ease. If he still won't show you, that's a red flag. But staying rational gives him a chance to open up without getting defensive.
Trust is huge in relationships. Just make sure he's earning yours through honest clear communication. Worst case, keep your eyes open for other signs something's off. But hopefully talking it out will help reassure you both. Just try keeping a level head, ya know? You got this.
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God you sound like a royal pain in the ass. Your boyfriend will dump you if you keep that up.
Name? Age? You sound like the FBI. If you have this deep of trust issues then maybe you’re better off single, otherwise cut the guy some slack before you lose him.
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I don't understand why it matters if the coworker he switched days with was male or female.
What the hell does it matter if he switched switched days with his coworker and if his coworker is a girl? Get a hold of yourself
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