If a guy said “girl you don’t wanna date me” is he implying that I shouldn’t invest myself in being interested in him? see pic for reference?

[Anonymous]

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Like is that his way of saying he doesn’t want to hang out anymore?

[petitedollbabee]

He’s poking fun at himself. He’s not saying it in a serious manner, which is clear based on the context in the messages. He’s saying that he’s a really busy person and he’s a bit of a mess.

[serenalovesramen]

i think he’s trying to say he won’t have much time to spend with you

[GregorSamsa]

If he's getting a second job and is "all over the place," it sounds like he needs to get his shit together before he considers bringing someone else into it.

[OddBeMe]

First do you want to date him?
Does his opinion matter that much?
Finally, how much of your self worth is devoted to what guys think?

[Interstate]

The lol just means, "I'm just kidding".

[Asker]

What about the last text

[Interstate]

Ask him for his honest opinion about you.

[Asker]

I don't know if I’m ready for that answer yet lol