Does being rejected make you want a girl even more?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Guys, women ate not going to like me for saying this but here it goease.

My answer is hell NO, because I don't want to be number 40 on her list. She probably signed up for all the dating sites and has dates 7 days a week sometime 2 a day. I don't want leftovers of a modern woman. So if she passes then leave the trash outside where it belongs. Modern women would rather act like they are independent and say they don't need men but who crated the dating app they are on, or if the lights go out nation wide who do they turn too. The rather use you for your money and a free date vs actually getting to know you not someone who will pay her bills as she uses her money how she wants. Think about it. If a woman get 10 guys she has all her rent, car, and bills paid for. Girl don't got to the gym to get fit they go to wear tight leggings and short tops and only workout their butt nothing else. Then they cry that men are checking them out. It women giving a woman the bad vibe and image not me. Just pas on the modern woman and don't look back trust me you saved yourself a lot of money, stress and heartach. They are all looking for a relationship just not with you because your not the highest bidder with all the money.

[Whitewulf]

Are you asking if I would want the girl who just rejected more? Or just wanting to have a girlfriend in general more after being rejected. Well I guess it doesn’t matter because my answer is no to both.
first why would it matter? If you reject him you weren’t interested right? Unless you are playing games. Secondly, if or when I’m rejected it’s a pretty hard shot to my confidence or ego and makes me not even try anymore. I am not able to separate that rejection by just one girl. In other words she didn’t want me so none of them will. Is how my mind works.

[Guccigabbana18]

Some guys might if they're immature and want what they can't have. Girls too. But guys and girls who aren't toxic themselves probably will move on

[Bella2423]

I shouldn't say it but what I see is a lot of guys like girls reject them and lose interest if the girl wants them

[Asker]

Exactly

[AviatorTom]

No, for me, just the opposite.

After my amicable divorce, I dated a some women via an online dating app. A few of them rejected me, and that just stirred me on to find another woman to date. One woman rejected me because I was moving too slow (she had the 3-date rule). That definitely didn't happen with the next woman I dated, and we had a very nice few months until we broke up.

[Whitewulf]

I got rejected recently because I have a cat. Lol

[KrakenAttackin]

@AviatorTom. "Amicable divorce", how the fuck did you manage that?

[AviatorTom]

@KrakenAttackin We still cared for each other, we just had grown apart. We admitted to ourselves that we mainly got married to have a family, and now that our 3 kids were grown, well... we sat down together and negotiated (fairly) our divorce. We actually wrote the divorce agreement together at the kitchen table, then gave it to a divorce attorney for processing.

[KrakenAttackin]

@AviatorTom. Good for you.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It depends. It usually makes me less attracted to them. But sometimes if it's someone I really admire or see as valuable, it makes me wonder why and then I need to find out... They usually end up being hoe's but sometimes they end up being really great.

Some of my best relationships I got from being persistent and now that I think about it, a lot of people I know who were married for a long time told me they were too.

[Space_535]

No, the opposite. And if I do stop completely talking to them, then they try to get my attention again. It’s like a whole cycle. But at that point they’re already dead to me, because why would anyone in their right mind want someone who rejected them at first?

[McKellar]

More like either I will need to try again with a different woman, or just stop wasting your time if these ladies don't want to date you at all. Then again they have been playing mind games with me often. So I just thought, "Whatever. To hell with them".

[Static_In_The_Attic]

No it makes me want her LESS.

[sawno]

No it will make me move on. Either she's not interested so she's not going to be compatible with me in the long run, or she's playing games which I am not interested in.

[HawkPerception]

Exact opposite. If they show no interest, I'm out. One of the best feelings for anyone is the feeling of being desired by someone of your taste.

[wiltingrosepetal]

I can imagine there are men so screwed up psychologically that they would act like that. But, on average, guys will give up if she's not interested

[nonyabeez-wax]

No, no means no.

I'm too old for games. You tell me no, I'm moving on. I'm not trying to waste my time playing "hard to get" games.

[Bendi21]

Nope. And even if she changed her mind and apologized to me I'd still only consider talking with her.

[DarkWinterNights]

No, that’s the fastest way for me to lose all interest.

[spartan55]

No, it makes me want to move the opposite direction. This sounds like another Women's Fable.

[spartan55]

Do women actually use this tactic? If they do they should take it out of their bag.

[Loki97]

No it makes me want to move on, because why chase it if it doesn’t engage the same. If you’re gonna reject me I’m not gonna waste my time on you. We are to old to be playing games.

[JustBeingReal727]

Yes and know it really depends if I already developed deep feelings for the person. Most of the time I get burned just for trying to settle with one person so I often have keep my options open if that person is no longer an option.

[WhiteSteve]

Nah. It stings a little, but I just keep on cruisin’😎

[Iron_Man]

I guess it’s competition for those people to be wanted. Why does everybody keep using the same girl and the same guy for their picture demonstrations

[Bricealan]

Hell no, it just solidifies my position in the "pecking order' dating.

[DextroShade]

No, I am not interested in women who aren't interested in me or want to play stupid games and waste my time.

[magiusX26]

nope. sure there are some that have that reaction but those are one offs from the norm for what ever of various reasons.

[litty736]

Maturity let's us handle things differently. If I'm rejected I take it as a form of protection from physical pain and heartache. Best to be true to yourself and enjoy life.

[Djaay]

Men who are mature no matter what age , know that rejection is only towards our best interest regarding how she's definitely not a good pick for that particular guy. Better ones to come.

[Leme2]

No, I woman expressing interest in me and not paying games makes me want the girl even more.

[Ironic_Method]

Never. It completely destroys any interest I have in them, even if they change their mind.

[Fireguy17]

Nope, I would move on to find someone that would actually want to be with me.

[Theodoricus]

Who cares? Women population is more than men population. So, i must keep searching the true one.

[systemsareyo]

No I'd move on and forget her. Wisdom with age I've developed lol 😂 than stupider younger me

[Unit1]

No, I'll find another girl. It's that simple.

[sentinustm]

Whatever I asked for, he rejected me...
If one day he regrets rejecting me, this time I will reject him.

[Hotboy_booblover]

Yes.. I think that applies to everything else in life too.. we take for granted whatever we have.. but always think highly of things we don't have irrespective of their real worth

[TheShadowReturns]

No. In fact it is the opposite. And I leave her once rejected. I don’t have the time to go after the same girl again. It is like a todo list for me. Just tick mark the task.

[KrakenAttackin]

Not at all. "No means no". I'm out.

[LiamJHayden]

No, I just smile and move on to another girl.

[RyanK9b]

God no, if she reject me I turn away and focus on a new girl.

[fuddly]

I would say yes

I think some girls are clever to say no/dump
In order to get what they want

[pickles77]

Not really only like girls that mutually like me back

[Tomisworthless]

No I just move on, and I don’t chase women. If they want me they will come

[Charliefretz329]

Not at all. Don’t have time or patience for games. Happier alone than with drama

[DreamLife7]

If you're pretty but considering you're faceless ure ugly so no it won't work for u

[Anonymous]

Nope! I leave her alone and move on! I'm too old for mind games! I don't put up with that shit anymore!

[Jmmmfi4]

DEFINITELY NOT... MADE ME COMPLETELY LOSE HOPE

[Juneboy24]

No ! it just made me want to work harder To try and win her

[Anonymous]

If I get rejected I try to forget she exists even if we were friends before

[Truthatanycost]

Being rejected makes me forget she exists!

[ProbablyClueless]

No, absolutely not.

[SolitarySolace]

No? It makes me want to remain single

[Anonymous]

This is so stupid.

[Fuentes]

No that's how u get blocked lol

[Anonymous]

Of course not.

[rigmarole]

Nope.

[straightmax12]

No. If she doesn't want me, I won't chase her.

[justabuddy]

It can... but not in a healthy way.

[RavVid]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

Yes, honestly. I get a little obsessive.

[Anonymous]

No, makes me find another

[Danny_dan92]

Nah, her loss

[jahaims]

No lol

[Staximus]

Not at all

[dudeinohio]

No. I move on

[Crankor]

Nope.

[In_Trance]

Never