Bestfriends or boyfriends?

[Charly05]

this is for both guys and girl, if say, your boyfriend/girlfriend is feeling bad and insecure about your opposite gendered bestfriend, and asks you to choose? what would you do?
you have been bestfriends for about 2-3 years and they (the opposite gender) has gotten close to your and your heart (platonically only). They too do not see you as anything other than a good close friend.
you have been dating your partner for about a little lesser time time but yeah, you get the point.

what do you think is supposed to be done here? and why?

I'm choosing my bestfriend

no my partner matters more

i think I'll just try to solve the issue between them

[RebelinSteel]

I would try to resolve the issue, I really would not want to lose a close friend, however if they are being an arsehole about something, then I will side with the other person. This likely happens more among friends than having a person you date added to the mix. In the past my friends have had really awkward problems to work out with each other and some classic arguments.

[Anonymous]

"they (the opposite gender) has gotten close to your and your heart (platonically only)"

Yeah, no. You as a woman may think it's platonic only, but chances are it's not. It's unfair for someone to put her partner in that position. As a man, he has valid reason to worry.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/T_lh5fR4DMA

[DevikaButts95]

If I'm ever given an ultimatum from someone, I'd choose the person not giving me an ultimatum.

[InspireGlow678]

My best friend, definitely. Easy choice

[Tallbestfriend80]

Best friend

[riverrat3]

Best friend