Is a boat ride too much for a girl after a couple dates?

[red324]

Say you go on a couple dates, then for the third date you would like to her out on the lake on your boat. I don't think i've ever even had a date on my boat before. They always agree, then stand me up. Is it a safety thing or something?

[petitedollbabee]

Personally it would be a safety thing for me, the idea of being alone with a guy that I’ve only been on a few dates with, out on the water with no escape if things turn sour… I wouldn’t agree to it. I’m not sure why a woman would agree to it and then blow you off if she didn’t want to do it in the first place.

[sheikalana]

Once a guy took me on a boat ride on the first date. We didn't plan for it tho it was spontaneous we saw a boat I made some comment about me never going on a boat trip and the next thing I know I was on a boat with this guy LOL.

[red324]

Some girls are more spontaneous than others. I think she was paranoid about her body. I told her she could wear a hoodie for all I cared lol. She was like let me get sexy first lmao.

[red324]

I'm not really one to beg and plead and text back and forth 15 times until she decides it's okay, but I think for a lot of women that's truly whats needed so they feel comfortable enough.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Apparently they're good to go, but not afterwards, so there's something happening on the boat they aren't comfortable with. Give it more time. See if that changes things. If not, there's something off on your boat.

[Anonymous]

That seems fine to me.