All of a sudden I miss my ex and couldn't control my tears. He blocked me due to a misunderstanding. I'm unable to move on. What should I do? Beg him?

[Anonymous]

[Rando42069deezenuts]

Honestly if you are trying to move on, not seeing him is probably the best thing. The less mental space he occupies and the more time/distance you give yourself the shorter the heartbreak will last. Every time you re-expose yourself to him you are triggering memories/emotions associated with him and triggering the romantic withdrawal. Do not beg him for anything, that is disrespectful to yourself. You like him are a valuable human being, with valid emotions and experiences. I don't know the reason why he blocked you or why you broke up but if this is after the fact, I would leave it. If he refuses to have an open discussion, leave it at that. If you respect his boundaries he more likely to interact with you than not. Give it time and space, move on. This storm will pass. bigthink. com/neuropsych/breakup-neuroscience/

[Asker]

I don't respect him anymore but yeah, you're right, I should stop seeing his triggers and stop holding on to his memories. If he really loved me or cared for me he would never have blocked me even due to a misunderstanding. Love tolerated anything. If he can't tolerate what I did or what he misunderstood, he's not the one for me. It's a wake up call for me to be with a more understanding guy and not a less efficient thoughts guy. If he didn't care to rectify the misunderstanding, he probably doesn't deserve me. I'll dump him back as he dumped me. Dumping can be done on both sides. Might be life wants to make me a strong girl to heartless guys and might be it's teaching me a hardest but necessary lesson as him such that I don't get along with heartless guys like him anymore. I'm happy with the fact that life gave me an opportunity to be with someone better and caring than him who could be greater than him in every aspect. My ex is the loser. I have nothing to care about. I moved on now. I'm not having tears anymore. Why to waste my valuable tears and thoughts for a monster like him? I won't respect him or his boundaries even if I move on. I simply distance myself from him completely and he will never get me back again. It's his greatest loss. Let him not talk with me. I don't have anything to lose anymore. I can only gain a better guy than my ex

[OtterMan68]

counseling. Seriously. See a professional who can help you work through this

[Asker]

Why always a professional? Can't I heal without anyone's support?

[Roudyrebel8]

Realize that you are incredible lovely and there is someone out there for you

[jahaims]

If he blocked you over a misunderstanding then move on