Girls, What do I do if she says she’s scared?

[DonJohnson12]

I went on a date with a girl a few months ago and we really hit it off. Probably the best first date I’ve had. Unfortunately, it didn’t really go anywhere

A few weeks ago she ended up hitting me up again and we’ve been talking a bunch since. The only problem is that when I bring up hanging out, she pushes it to the side. I kinda asked what was going on and she said “she’s constantly scared and very skittish”. What does she mean by this? What can I do to make her feel less scared

[_Maya_]

Well you have really only two options. One it is to take it slow and hope that she opens up. The other is to move on because you feel like it isn't going to work out. That is really up to you and how much patience you have and how much you think this girl is worth it. There is little else you can do. If you push her when she isn't comfortable then you will just push her away by the sound of it. Do you know what it is that makes her "skittish"? Knowing that and understanding her issue might help a lot in this case.

[IslaTheWitch]

It can mean anything. She had terrible experiences, she has depression or some disorder, or she could be shy and afraid of meeting you in person again... It's a guessing fest. It's impossible to say because we don't know her.

In such a situation, you have two possible options. Give her time and see what happens, or give up.

[MissBoogus]

She just sounds very nervous. Like I would be. Dont think too much about it, because that’s what she’s doing, over analyzing and having panic attacks probably. Just tell everything’s gonna be fine we’re gonna have a good time and get your butt over here loll