Girl I’m seeing is scared of me?

[Anonymous]

We were cuddling at mine last night, and I asked her if she was scared of me.

She said yes. I asked her why and she told me because of how much she likes me.

I’ve known her for a little over a month now. I struggle to understand why I feel so good with her, but I just do and I hope it continues.

Is it too soon to feel love?

[Unphasedindie]

Personally depends on why you like her and why she likes you. If it’s more because she likes you as a person and so do you rather than just looks, it’s never bad to fall in love easily to that person. You like someone who gets you just as much as they get you.

[Anonymous]

It’s usually infatuation that early so it might make you feel like you’re in love. This stage tends to end at around 3-6 months in the relationship. Then you’re able to be more comfortable without the butterflies and fluttery feelings.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s just chemicals making you feel good cause it’s a new relationship and it’s exciting. Not that it’s bad. I really enjoyed this stage with my boyfriend. But it gets better later on too even without the infatuation.

[Asker]

I see. Well we've know eachother for just over a month...

She's really great - a bit shy, but fantastic

[Opinion Owner]

That’s great! Happy for you. Relationships are super fun with the right person.

[devilish-cutie]

you know what? Fuck it! You know sometimes in life you gotta risk it! Let it go, let it be, surrender to it. Fall on a head maybe, who cares, you gotta go nuts and live sometimes

[IveGotNoName]

She's not scared of you. She's just scared by the "power" you have over her emotionally.

[Asker]

Really? It's just I know I'm falling for her really hard...

[SandandWaves]

sounds like she is afraid of losing you

[Asker]

We've only know eachother for a bit over a month and we had our first date last week

[SandandWaves]

yeh, but, thats what it seems like

[Asker]

I'm falling for her.

[SandandWaves]

wow... good news ;)

[Asker]

I just want to savour what we have and not rush, you know, because what's the point of rushing if we both know how we feel?

[SandandWaves]

that's good