What should I say when a girl says she’s scared I’ll get bored of her?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Lol I always feel like it's a trap.

[SueShe]

I presume that you are asking that question because you intend ultimately to get into her pants if you get the opportunity.

She does realize that fact and also the consequences this implies for her. Usually, men get fed up after having fornicated 2 or 3 times and they need something new and that is exactly where her problem lies.

She does not feel like just being yet another number of a body count and that is why she is cautiously telling you what she fears will happen.

That is the problem nowadays when guys are simply seeking women to get rid of their levels of testosterone and then move on to the next victim once they accomplished what they had to do.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

That all tracks I guess but usually woman say this after you've been dating for some time already. At least to me... That's something to think about though.

[queenofcardio]

You give her reassurance. She's probably just looking for validation.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I just wish I understood the thought process behind it. Because the more I think about it, the more I feel like there's no meaningful way to answer it. Unless the question is more of a warning and it's showing she feels like you're kinda not giving her enough attention. 🤯

Wait is that it?

[Master_Debator]

I'd just tell her to not be boring then.

The thought that flashed through my mind after I wrote that... a lot of chicks think causing a shit ton of problems is a way to remain interesting... probably because it worked on their parents/parent as child. So don't listen to me... I'm busy questioning my own damn advice.

[WonderingManII]

You tell her I will never get bored of you. Men can't understand women, no way we can get bored of you. lol

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Haha that's actually not the worst answer.

[WonderingManII]

@Telekinetic-Potato I would scared if a woman asked me that question. It reminds of the "It's Me, Not You" statement. They always say that means, "The problem is you." Makes me wonder: Does the woman seriously want a good guy or not? Or does she want a guy that makes her feel good all the time? It's not real life to have someone that makes you feel good all the time.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I agree. And it's been said to me many times. I think one time is OK in the beginning but if that's seriously someone's insecurity then it says a lot about what they believe their ability is to stay committed is.

[WonderingManII]

@Telekinetic-Potato The way people reason things out today, confuses me. The way Women reason things out really confuses me.

[Staximus]

I think you better be wary of her, she's the one who's probably going to "get bored" first.

[Anonymous]

Whip your dick out and go to pound town.

[zombiewoof]

It probably is