Is a "French kiss" at the end of a first date a good sign or a bad sign?

Question

I have had first dates on which the girl didn't want to hold my hand. I had a first date about twenty years ago on which a girl offered me oral sex. I've had a few first dates - forty years ago - on which the girl and I had PIV sex. I've had a range of experiences.

The girls who would give me a French kiss at the end of a first date were not necessarily promiscuous; I dated one of them for two years and waited five months before we finally had sex. But, in general, I think that girls who French kissed at the end of a first date were quicker to progress to more intimate and sexual activities.

Girls, do you sometimes French kiss at the end of a first date? If you do, does it indicate sexual attraction and a desire to move quickly towards the bedroom? Do you think that gets you into a relationship quicker?

Guys, were the girls who French kissed generally more eager to have sex? Did you consider that to be a good sign or a bad sign?

BoopBoopBeep · Accepted Answer

I've been on "dates" with over a hundred women in my life on four continents (I wrote three at first but I remembered this one... anyway). The overwhelming majority of them french kissed me on the first date. the plurality of the remainder said they were waiting on me to do so. Is there some great subset of the population out there outside of super orthodox religious communities where that's not the standard? Hell even in the middle east that was the case. Or are people only going on dates to the theater or library or something where you can't get to know the other person? I am truly fascinated that this is going on. I'm liking this thread for follow up.

RingOfFire · Accepted Answer

The question is a little ambiguous. But after reading the text I assume it means that you consider a girl who is too promiscuous to be a bad thing (some men may consider it to be a good thing) and that you are asking whether her participating in a French kiss on the first date is a sign she is promiscuous (an apparent bad thing in your view).

I would take it as a sign she is ready for more. But I think some women don't necessarily mean it that way so I would not attempt to take advantage of it since some women are sexually naïve and don't understand the masculine libido.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

I dated a guy, we French kissed, I couldn’t stay away from his lips and he couldn’t stay away from mine, he was the best kisser I’ve kissed. But we didn’t work out romantically.

On another note, my ex kissed my cheek 3 months after dating 🤣 and our relationship worked perfectly well. 3 months is too much I know, I am just rather passive when it’s about starting getting sexual. And he was very nervous around me.

So… Doesn’t say much as you see other than he’s attracted to you.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Dude, what you had weren't dates, they were booty calls for those girls. I'm sure you may not have turned them down either, especially the oral sex, right?

TheorionMage · Answer

Kissing in general, is an animal species custom denoting a symbolic willingness to SHARE sustenance.  ' 
 
 French' kissing (like 'pass the icecube' party game) denotes BOTH their tactile sensuality and that they do... and will, ... reciprocate,  as things progress in intimacy.  I, personally, would progress to additional tactile foreplay~ I EXPECT for her to go back into HER home, AROUSED (possibly 'wet') and wanting MORE~ Obviously...  scrupulous oral hygiene is the benchmark.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

I like tongue kisses but I'd personally kiss like that on 2nd date or later. I do believe you should kiss on your first date, ideally more than once and finishing it with a big passionate smooch.

LazerBean · Answer

Definitely not a good sign. It just means that there's a very high chance that you've had second hand dick in your mouth.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I have french kissed on a first date but I wasn't willing to have sex to quickly. I just like kissing especially someone I really like.

petitedollbabee · Answer

If you both enjoyed it, then I’d say it’s a good sign? Everyone is different. I hate French kissing in general, I certainly wouldn’t do it on a first date.

jaskin777 · Answer

It all on how u look at it  Yes French kiss ( hell any making out kiss :) leads to sexual stuff  So if ur not wanting to have sex right then and there then take it as a bad sign from the girl

mandyfire98 · Answer

It's a good sign considering if she didn't like you she wouldn't be kissing you. Doesn't necessarily mean she wants sex.

Jkgordon · Answer

Bad sign whoever wants their tongue in your mouth knowing nothing about you is disgusting. I’ve been stop kissing it’s disgusting !

laly520 · Answer

its def a good sign especially if u both enjoyed it

SotiCoto · Answer

... Can't possibly take this nonsense seriously. How long are you going to call it "French kissing" for? Don't you yanks have a better word for it yet?

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Any form of affection is good.

Anonymous · Answer

I think you are obsessed with french kissing🙂

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