Why is it so hard to find real love these days?

[Robertjo16]

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Its not just in a romantic sense. Wether it be friendship, parental, romantic, or any other. Its so difficult

[dynamicyandere]

It's similar to how it's difficult to find true empathy, compassion, altruism, and kindness.

Real love is like those things.

One needs to have a good heart in order to truly love someone, because love is not selfish.

Love is willing to sacrifice and endure and persevere when the going gets tough.

That kind of selfless care for another human being is hard to come by.

Many people are self-absorbed and only concerned about what benefits them, what can they get out of it.

Too many people are about take take take.

Many people have forgotten how to give.

I hope that you find more people in your life, that have good hearts, that know how to give.

Many people are lost...

I want to build a company that helps promotes these good values again, to show people that there is a better way, to help them see that being selfish does not serve them in the long run, that if we want to live fulfilling lives and improve society, we all need to adopt better values.

[dynamicyandere]

Thanks for the MHO. 😊

[Charliefretz329]

Love is giving your gifts and soul to another. That person does the same to you. Love is not selfish…


People think love will solve all their problems and have a Disney/Hollywood view. That’s not what love is. And love requires both parties.


Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.


Love has always been equally hard to do as it it to find others to do for you.

[MemeSupreme]

i give you all a boy could give you

take my tears and that's not nearly

ALLLLLLLLLLLL

tainted love

wooaaahooo

tainted love

[jaskin777]

The right person will come into ur life when u least expect it

[SpaceGalaxy]

well-said

[KrakenAttackin]

@jaskin777. Exhausting bullshit. Most women met their husband in their early/mid 20's but they curbed him.

[jaskin777]

I never met mine yet and I'm only 26

[KrakenAttackin]

@jaskin777. That's ok, you can just "manifest" him 😏😏😏.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for love it works in mysterious ways & if you want to meet people you have to actually greet people. On the other hand times have changed & people are so in love with their phones it’s unbelievable & they don’t realize what they have in front of them.

In life if you never try you will never know & in life if you like someone you shouldn’t be afraid to tell them. Love is out there so put down your phone, put away your headphones & go find what you looking for.

[SixFootSexy]

dating apps ruined everything

Computer brain people thinking the options are infinite, or that women who are 5's and 6's who can sometimes sleep with a guy who is a 9-10, don't realize they CANNOT lock that man down. Marriage is proof of commitment, otherwise it's just sex.

[OddBeMe]

Becuase we’ve put so much shit in the way. Maybe it was always this hard. But what I think now, this digital, social media type dating ritual of choosing dates based on superficial profiles might not be best.

Perhaps if used right. Like I’m a big meetup fan. I use it to network, hell even had a depression “seminar” (unofficial of course). But the point is I used the app for the purpose of meeting up. Not the purpose of swiping right.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It's sad to say, but people are looking for Mrs Right, just for sexual things which hurts, people like things their way, yes the list goes on.

[Andres77]

People in the current generation don’t know how to love. To sacrifice and wait and give to others. Everyone has become selfish and greedy.

true love is becoming a myth.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Andres77. I agree 💯. True love starts with COMMITMENT, which today only goes as far as the next Tinder swipe.

[LiamS95]

Mostly because so many persons now want to ghe benefits of a relationship without the commitment. You're still young and beautiful you'll eventually find real love.

[Sonorous]

Because a better person is just a click away.

[Joshydavid25]

It's always been hard because humans are conditional.. Very few have unconditional love in them..

[FunkyMonkee]

As far as I'm concerned, its ALWAYS been hard!!

[Jerre]

It is a little early in your life to find real love. When you are 18 or older, you will find real love.

[Jerre]

@robertjo16 Thank you for the Like Roberto!

[Sparkie460]

Your knight in shinning armor is out there somewhere. Give it time. You'll find each other

[jahaims]

Societal and cultural values have been taken over by consumerism and other cheap values

[shortster]

To much social media. Nobody knows how to interact with people in person.

[JacobJordan]

Because very few people are genuine anymore

[Cheerfull009]

You be sincere and loyal, you will get real lover

[SotiCoto]

Because fake love is more profitable.

[Staximus]

You have plenty of time

[Roudyrebel8]

People are selfish

[Jmmmfi4]

WISH I KNEW

[eagle1951]

don't rush it