How to bring up to a guy that it bothers me that he never asks me questions?

[Anonymous]

We started dating two weeks ago and all is great except that he rarely asks me any questions about me, my day or stuff like that. And when he does it feels forced and he quickly changes the subject. He just goes on and on about himself, trying to impress me and get me to like the things he also likes. Last time we saw each other he practically begged me to watch his favorite anime (that he watched like 5 times already) even though I suggested something else for the change because we watch that one every time. We end up making out and spooning every time so I don't catch any of the show anyway, and now when I told him this he put the show and didn't cuddle me, so I could focus on the show. It's a bit odd and I don't like it. He talks about himself a lot, I feel like I already know him to the core, while he doesn't know anything about me, and doesn't care to. On the other hand he is really excellent in sex, very attentive, thoughtfull, wants to please me. And gives me a lot of attention every day.

[Truthatanycost]

As long as you continue to stay with him, you are communicating that his behavior is fine. When ever you need to inform someone how to treat you... it's already over.

You said 'And when he does it feels forced and he quickly changes the subject.'

How much more forced will it feel if he starts doing that after 'you've told him to'. You said 'he is really excellent in sex...'

I wonder if you would have already split up if he wasn't...

[ProbablyClueless]

You just say it. Don't expect anything to change though. The guy's not asking about you because he's not genuinely interested in asking about you.

[Monalisa77]

Could b shy, thibk the things he might say will come across stupid

[ProbablyClueless]

@Monalisa77 Nah. Not in this case. He has no problem talking about himself.

[Monalisa77]

Its the same with me, i talk about myself all the time but i struggle asking others qs cos i worry

[Monalisa77]

Its much easier to talk about urself

[Monalisa77]

Maybe try a question game where he has to ask u stuff to win?

[Olivier-628]

He invested all skill in how to have sex, not a skill to form a decent relationship.

[HateyouxD]

He might just want sex