Is it weird to still be attracted to a woman who's gained weight?

[Anonymous]

I had a crush on her back in school and now I found out she likes me, I still think she's beautiful even though she's gained weight since school.

[slatyb]

No, but think about how much more weight she is likely to gain, and whether you would still be attracted.

[Asker]

I could see myself still wanting to be with her.

[slatyb]

What attracts you? I'm not trying to dissuade you, I was with a woman who was a bit overweight for some years and it was fabulous. I wtill miss her. She was brilliant and could make me laugh.

[Asker]

I like a sense of humor and a good personality, I also find her an interesting person and could listen to her talk all day. I was attracted to her physically as well in school and I still am now.

[Billlewis]

No, if anything, I'm more likely to be attracted to her after she's put on a few extra pounds.

[sheikalana]

That's not weird.