What do you think of "princess treatment" culture in dating?

[smahala1991]

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Princess treatment is when someone receives extra attention and care, such as admiration, pampering, and lavish care. It can also refer to giving someone special treatment in a relationship, which can include not driving, cleaning, or working. The idea comes from movies and stories that depict princesses as fragile and deserving of attention and love.

[msc545]

It would have really helped your question a lot. Had you bothered to explain what it is that you think princess treatment actually is but you didn't do that. So I am going to have to sort of speculate here and think that it basically consists of men kissing women's asses in the hope that they will get laid.

Generally speaking, this doesn't work since women tend to view the sort of behavior has evidence of weakness and simping Even though they like it and can brag to their girlfriends about it, endlessly.

It debases men to a horrible extent keeping on those rare occasions when it does work to some extent I encourage all men to refrain from doing this. It's better to use your hand than it is to simp.

[smahala1991]

I just posted a description in updates

[msc545]

Thank you for your belated description of princess treatment. What you have in mind is pretty much what I thought you had in mind. So my response stands along with this:

I'm not interested in treating women as special simply because they have a vagina and two x chromosomes. I have feelings, needs and desires just like everybody else. And if a woman deserves princess treatment then so do men. We don't get it.

[CaptainSmartass]

It seems like a one-way ticket to controlling behaviour. If she grows to expect this at the start of the relationship, she'll get worse as time goes on. You'll be at her back and call 24/7.

Simples...

[IslaTheWitch]

No, thank you. It means that my partner is not himself. He tries to do something that doesn't come from him. It's not genuine. I don't like that idea. I want my partner to get to know me and learn what I like and what I dislike, not just use "standard" receipts and ideas... We are unique and deserve unique treatment from the people closest to us.

[Demonatrix]

Mmmmm that sounds nice to be pampered once in a while. On the whole it is something that in a relationship should be an equal opportunity for both partners.

[mandyfire98]

Yeah, I definitely wouldn't enjoy that. I love the attention I do get from my partners but I don't want it to be overboard.

[Jamie05rhs]

If she's like that BEFORE the wedding, imagine what she'll be like after.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It makes no sense to me

[NathanDavis]

extra?

[getwiththepg]

Don’t do it.

[Minahh]

As it should be 💅🏻

[Billlewis]

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