How do you get a roster?

I’m a 5’8” fit Brazilian with long black hair and great body. I always hear about women talking about their rosters of men. I don’t even mean it on an egotistic level but I am more conventionally attractive than them and I don’t have a roster. Note do I have men flocking to me like they always talk about. I post on social media i only get interactions from women occasionally ugly or hood men no decent guys. You can say it’s my personality but no one can tell that from just looking at me or my social media. What am I doing wrong?

How do you get a roster?
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