Did I accidentally cheat on her 😲?

[Anonymous]

We have been dating for a little over 6 months, there has never been a day where she didn't contact me, sometime She has been a little flaky as far as the response time, but we both work busy jobs so that's all good. Recently she went four days without contacting me at all, I live in a flake capital in the United States of America, where girls are extremely flaky and ghost regularly. So I figured she was just being non-dramatic and ghosting me, no big deal, it happens. So I called one of my regulars from before we for serious and I slept w her.

Then of course my girl inevitably calls me, and says she was busy because her sister was visiting. So was this cheating? Should she have texted me at least hello while her sister was here? I'm open to judgment. Let it rip.

Yes you're a cheater!

Nope, it was understandable

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[laly520]

its clear cheating
u could have ended it with her then went to sleep with whoever but no
when u did that u were still dating her so yes its cheating

[Ms_Facesitter]

There was no accident here. You made the decision. And yes you cheated.

[AviatorTom]

Educate us please... how do you accidentally have sex with someone? And why do you think a 4-day respite entitles you to cheat?

[CozyCoffin]

There is NEVER an accident in cheating.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

if this situation occurred in my life, I would feel like I was cheated on. Four days is not a big deal. You guys need to communicate better with the occurrences in your life. It sounds like you just wanted to get laid.

[RebelinSteel]

That was not an accident, that was totally planned and 100% cheating.

[Anonymous]

Four days? Goodness gracious, man that was quick lol

[KrakenAttackin]

She was getting railed for those four days by some other guy.

[HouseMoat]

If you're having to ask, you probably did