For many months my girlfriend was determined to get pregnant and made me do all sort of things to make it possible. She made us both do fertility tests, I had to stop smoking, and we took vitamins every for about 3 months. One day, I came home from work we had dinner and at bed time she told me that she was pregnant. A few weeks later, I came home and she told me that she was going to have a abortion. I told her that if she had a abortion I would break up with her, so she decided to keep the child. One day I came home, she made up a argument with me, and then casually told me that she had taken a pill and was in a middle of a abortion.
I believe that the baby was not mine, because why would she make all kinds of efforts and be desperate to have my baby, and all of a sudden get pregnant and do a abortion without talking to me first. Since the abortion she as been happy again and keeps suggesting for us to have a child in the near future.
It is never easy for a woman to get an abortion, even if she's pro-choice. Her decision was very likely not made lightly. Women can often say that we want children, and even go through all the hoops to have them, but then when it actually happens, it can spook a person, as reality sets in. Shit gets real, so to speak.
To be honest it sounds like she wanted to get pregnant but didn't think it would happen so quickly and got cold feet. A lot of women could be waiting a year or more for it to happen, and it's possible that she anticipated the wait to be longer.
I highly doubt she cheated. I would give her a break. She wanted a child with you, and it sounds like you were both having frequent sex together to make it happen. I wouldn't add any drama to the mix during this difficult time. She didn't understand that pregnancy could happen this quickly and now she knows better and can be smart about it for next time when trying again.
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She probably was testing you to see if you'd care enough about the abortion. She's wack
She sounds coo coo for coco puffs.
I would have issues with her.
Go get fixed and freeze some swimmers for the future just in case.
You don't want any nasty surprises if you are 110% sure that having a kid together would be the best thing ever.
This is exactly why I refuse to ever have children. Women would just get an abortion anyway and I couldn't do shit about it. I hope you dumped her ass and left her on th curb with no more than a sack and a hobo stick
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Lol u stayed with her after stating u would leave her
my mom wants grandchildren. I don't blame her but she doesn't understand that it's not up to me to give her grandchildren because my baby could easily be aborted
Can you get a sample of the fetal tissue and have it tested?
Women are most likely to cheat when they are ovulating.
Still suggests for you two to have a child together? Jesus she done lost her mind
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That’s a huge problem. You better get a test.
Sounds like she did sorry to say
Yeah that's definitely sus
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