Did my girlfriend cheat on me?

[Judge5150]

My girlfriend never mentioned me on fb once in three years, She omitted me from a trip I drove her to. She made sure I posted all our pics on my fb? She told me she closed her fb account, but i found it, and that is where she met this guy Jarrod, and she hid him, and lied about it for a year and a half! She tells me they were just friends, and only talked about their kids. But when I saw him posting heart emojis on her profile pic, it messed my mind up! I asked her to stop "talking to him, or it's over, and she promised she would, but lied again, and didn't stop! And get this. In the beginning of our relationship, it was her idea to not talk to the opposite sex, but i found out she never stopped. Ladies, did she cheat on me? I know I sound pathetic, but i was in love with her, and wanted to believe she wouldn't cheat. I need to know!

[Rosexøxø]

Yeah she cheated, I mean it’s obvious. Morals are all wrong and very deceitful with a person you should neverrr be deceitful to. Did she have an affair with that person? Not sure. If they know each other irl, I would assume some physical acts have taken place. If they have hung out many times due to the simple fact of timeframe (I. e. +1 year (s)) then yes, they have most likely had many sexual encounters. The fact that she’s still with you shows her relationship with him- online or not, short term or not, is not strong enough for her to leave you. He could be married and/or not the loyal type. The fact you asked this online could be you trying to salvage what you have and to obtain clarity, but if you can’t openly discuss it with her or trust her, then that’s a red flag. You can confront her on all this, or in your best way brace for a break up and find better suitors. Easier said than done. Long opinion. Apologies for it all, and truly wishing you the best.

[Judge5150]

Thank you so much for your opinion! I just told her i put this question out here, and she's not happy!

[Rosexøxø]

True love does find a way. Best to you both!

[ladybananhammock]

It sounds like the reason you have no social media presence on her accounts is because YOU are the other man/ back burner boyfriend. She is keeping you around until or in case something better came along. Like come on dude it's so obvious she's been cheating and 'Jared' is not the only one. If you were her main guy she wouldn't be blocking you on social media and never posting anything about you. Like in the three years you been together have you met her family or hung out with her friends or met any of them and she introduced you as her boyfriend? If a guy was posting stuff with heart emoji I would either block him cause he doesn't respect that I'm in a relationship or am into him and been flirting and seeing him and the heart emoji is because we have an intimate relationship. But no you aren't pathetic but I think you already knew the answer before you posted the question.

[Judge5150]

I did know the answer, and she denies it completely! I just wanted to hear it from other women, cause they know women! I have met her family, been to her house, went to meet her brother in the mountains, the trip she omitted me from. I even met her ex-husband, so I might be the main guy, and she doesn't want her flings to know about me! I just need to know that I'm not crazy! It sucks to know, but it's so good to hear it from you! Thank you so much!

[Texaskid1]

Yup.

She cheated on you more likely. Walk away from this women.

[Judge5150]

I finally did. What a waste of three years!

[mandyfire98]

Doesn't look good. She shouldn't be hiding anything like that.

[Judge5150]

I know I didn't hide anything, and definitely for that long!

[Iron_Man]

Have her followed

[Judge5150]

I'll just make sure she doesn't come back this time!

[Anonymous]

It sounds like it.

[Judge5150]

I agree!

[Hoomin]

I kinda guess she was not sure

[Judge5150]

I'm not too sure what that means!

[Hoomin]

I was saying she wasn't sure about you because she lied to you and probably would have cheated in this scenario.