Do you think being a man is hard?

[Anonymous]

Only the top 5% of men are attractive to women and receive all the likes on apps.

In fact only a small minority of men are hookin up with all the women.

Being a man is hard

No I disagree

[MrOracle]

I think life is hard for almost everyone, just in different ways. Both men and women have advantages and disadvantages and unique challenges.

For every way you can name where you have a disadvantage, I could name a way a women has a disadvantage. Overall, we've had a pretty good balance until relatively recently (about the last 30 years), when radical feminism tried to flip the table. But the pendulum is swinging the other way, because nearly everyone agrees that it swung way too far. Hopefully, balance will be restored.

[wiltingrosepetal]

There are positives and negatives.

Good things for men:
-No periods woohoo
-Built stronger
-No shame around sexual exploration
-Less at risk of rpe and sexual assault
-Being a leader is treated as a good thing
-No childbirth
-Can walk around shirtless
-Freedom to act like a slob

Good things for women:
-No balls woohoo
-Dating apps are a breeze
-Less at risk of suicide
-Can earn money just based on their looks
-No conscriptions in wars (unless that's changed)
-Upper-hand in divorce cases
-Freedom to express emotion

To say that all men have it worse or all women have it worse is silly. Also, personal experience relies heavily on culture. The new generation in China has a gender imbalance so women are prized, but middle Eastern women don't have nearly the amount of privileges men do. So yeah, pretty even split.

[laly520]

being a human is always hard
meanwhile being a pet is pretty easy
at least when that pet is living indoors

[MittParekh15]

Being men is hard.

Because you are at times the sole earner in the house

You have to keep your family happy, cum what may if you are having ups and downs in your life

Generally other people speak with girls a bit gently, while at many times people are rought to a guy

We need to understand the situation and keep the stakeholders happy, while no gurantee that other people will understand you.

[Anonymous]

Only if you judge your existence, worth and masculinity on what women think of you. If you stop obsessing over getting women and sex, life as a man is joyful. if only men placed that much emphasis on worship of God, instead of women they would be better off.

[ButtFloggedTroll]

I've never seen a woman being hard.

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[ButtFloggedTroll]

You could get laid today or tomorrow no matter how ugly you are. What guarantees that you won't is exactly the mindset of posting this question.

Just imagine seeing a woman whining about how life sucks because she's unable to sleep with as many men as she wants.

[ButtFloggedTroll]

You know what other statistics have a similar figure of few men being better? Independent thinking, and physical health. "Smart", by far was the most common compliment I received from chicks throughout school. Sometimes would compliment my height although I'm just an inch above average, so the height fetish seems over exaggerated, that one's obvious anyway. The "you're the most ripped... strongest..." 100% came from dudes. Few dudes cared about my diet, even when I'd talk about it in response to their questions of how I'm simultaneously strong and ripped. While I could hear chicks gossiping about my organic diet regularly, consisting of cheap shit like defective eggs. Good diet isn't unaffordable. It's mindboggling how you expect women to be turned on when you're literally, scientifically, unhealthy!

If you ate the healthiest diet to your ability and lifted just 30 minutes daily, you'd attract the largest chunk of women at once, regardless of your genetics. It's like most men aren't interested in BBW, in bodybuilding women, or in anorexics, rather the fertile healthy looking females have the largest amount of men drooling.

Long time ago a guy said to me "you're ugly" and immediately "who cares.. whatever." Before I could respond. And I agreed with him, but then I consider all men ugly, I never got horny looking at a guy. On the same day the chick he was chasing walked up to me and started touching me... Can you guess what her biggest trigger for me was? Because I was kind when others weren't.

Stress resilience, not whining, is attractive in everyone. Scientifically, studies concluded lower cortisol as better predictor of hotness than higher testosterone. When a dog smells a bear suddenly it isn't such a good protector, goes to hide in a corner.. similarly the smell of a dangerous psychopath won't cause wetness. Even if he looks hot. So many think they're "dominant" when they argue with women but only display their intolerance, irritability, smallmindedness.

[Flower7]

It must be hard to think about nothing else in life other than how many women you could get.

[Nikki1989]

It is only hard if you choose to believe nonsense statistics like this.

[Squatting_Slav]

It's a cruise in a park for me. I think it is, with the right decisions and mentality

[straightmax12]

Women expect too much from men and give little to nothing in return.

[ButtFloggedTroll]

Crazy women do. But I don't consider it "too much" to expect men to not look like wood ticks. If we're talking here about hook ups, these men literally whine how only "chads" get it. And that women only have sex to offer. So, you offer them looking like a Chad and these sluts offer you sex. What's not right?

I really struggle to get it how 1) men manage to be so unfit, skinny fat. 2) on top of that expect women to be attracted to them. 3) clearly ask questions that contain their own answer, that "chads" get sex.

[Apple1996]

Both men and women have it hard

[clampfan101]

Being human is hard, but ya.