Been on 2 dates with a guy. He seems like he's into me but we only kiss, cuddle and hold hands and I thought he would have at least talked about sex by now even if he thought we should wait another couple of dates. Do you guys think this is normal or should I somehow try and hint to him that I'd like to?
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Yeah so a lot of guys are have a fear of coming out as/being mistaken for being Desperate/Too horny/creepy/weird etc etc when it comes to talking about sex or bringing up the topic for the first time
He seems a bit anxious and doubtful on what your reaction should be and whether you'll find it a "turn off"
So of course it's normal and it would be great if you can give some signs or hints for the same eventually
Good luck
After 2 dates unless you knew each other previously is not a lot to get to know each other. He may have been burned before expecting sex and is now letting you steer things. Try moving the conversation in a flirty but fun way towards sex, or just notch it up a bit when kissing with him.
2 dates doesn't sound a lot if you are looking for a commited relationhip, if you are looking only for fun yeah you should tell him
Well if you don't want to be used for "just sex" I recommend not mentioning it for awhile. Its only been 2 dates.
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It's not necessarily a bad thing to take things slow and get to know each other before rushing into that, rushing into things is part of what destroys a lot of couples.
He could have also been burned in the past is just being cautious.
Well duh, its only been 2 dates, if you haven't been friends for a few years, even the stuff you are already doing is way too soon. Having sex with strangers is not normal.
Why don’t you tell him?
Umm maybe wants to take his time
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