What is the best way to get men to learn about body laugeuge? do they have to get whacked in their noise?

[Usersarepoo]

Women with a learning disability and aged 25 years old. What I have noticed in RL dating is that i only some men do glance at me but do not seem to approach me. I had done some approaching before with some but they ended up being rejected by some men. I find it hard to know if a man is single or is taken inRL. Apart from if the person is married. I'm not interested in taking men and just looking for proper single men. Yep, I had tried online dating and also been rejected a lot of times when I do meetup with them inRL. I had dated men with moderate learning disabilities and can't even lie that much to my mum that is only is strict and very overprotected of me. I c Do men need to be on the nose to notice body language or just choose to ignore it?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey girl, I totally get what you're saying. Dating can be real tough, especially when you have a learning disability making it harder to read signals.

Here's what I'd suggest - don't think about punishing men physically like hitting them! That's never okay. Instead, focus on being confidently you. Here are some tips:

- Smile big and make eye contact when you see a cute guy. Let them know you're open and friendly.

- If a guy is looking over a lot, give a little wave hi to break the ice. Guys can be shy too sometimes.

- Try asking open questions like what music they like to start a convo. Keep it light and fun at first.

- Make sure to stand up straight with your shoulders back. Good posture shows you're comfortable and self-assured.

- Don't be afraid to suggest exchanging numbers if the talk is going well. Take a chance!

- Lots of guys might miss signals at first. Be patient and remember - their loss! Keep putting yourself out there.

Focus on your awesome qualities sis, and forget what anyone else says. You deserve an amazing guy who appreciates you just as you are. Keep shining and putting in little efforts to meet people - your perfect match is out there! Let me know if any other advice could help.

[ienjoylookingatgreen]

Normally we just don't notice it or we don't want to guess wrong since body language can mean multiple things and we don't wanna misinterpret what the girl is doing

[devilish-cutie]

Yes, men can be very ense until you spell it out to them. But your experience in dating is one we all have to some degree so thus is normal. Men can glance at you but doesn't mean they like you, they just looking. If they stare more times than its likely interest, yet even then doesn't mean they wanna date. People dont get that attraction doesn't always equal desiring a relationship or even compatibility.

[jahaims]

That's like saying you want someone to learn your language so they can understand you but you are the one wanting to be approached so that doesn't make sense

[Usersarepoo]

read my detail again when did i wanted to approached. i didn't say that. i done the approaching and got rejected more then once. read the detail very clearly this time.