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I noticed that no matter how she looks small breasts, big breasts, big bums, small bums, small waist, wide waist... Some men will body shame her especially online. Irl I don't get bodyshamed by men quite the opposite but online i get bullied by men all the time, I have been called flat, gap in teeth and ugly... Many women get called mid or ugly on tiktok when they look gorgeous af. Why is this happening?
I really don't know if this is very sad but funny that they do this or it's very funny but it's really sad and I don't mean the body shame I mean the principal of it all what I mean is I guarantee even on gag pay attention to every guy on here that puts a woman down for her answers listen to the harshness listen to the attitude the anger
But here's the ignorant part it's not funny and it's not sad it's just ignorant and disgusting I guarantee you every guy opening their mouth being rude has a secret and something wrong with them but here they put other people down as if they were somebody perfect or somebody who thought their word even mattered it's f****** disgusting as far as I'm concerned
It is all because they're angry because somebody did something to them and they can't get over it so they hate themselves they hate everybody else so they have to let everybody else know what it prick they are. .
And since you're not smart enough to figure out whatever it is they went through in life to make them be this way they're going to do the same thing with somebody else and that somebody else feel just the way they did but see women are smart enough to look good it's just ignorant angry guy that got his weenies pissed in and not smart enough to figure it out but she'll figure it out she'll look at him and say go f*** yourself and she'll be good she'll be all better it's not a big deal to her but that poor son of a b**** he'll be angry for the rest of his life
Women have made fun of my physical imperfections too. I don't care
Beauty is subjective.. there will always be people who think you are ugly and people who think you are beautiful. I have been put down to my face, told I was ugly, made fun of for having big boobs, told I have no ass, also told I have a big ass. There are also guys who told me I am beautiful, they love my eyes and lips.. It really doesn't matter you need to love yourself first and then you will realize who cares what people think of you. You have a boyfriend who loves you so who cares if other people want you or not..
Men are jealous at women for getting attention and lash out at them online where they feel safe. Don’t pay any attention to them.
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You don’t “get bullied” online. Especially if you are on a site like this and you have an option to go anon and it’s your choice to share photos of yourself.
If you can’t handle some rude comments on here you can block people. Your choice to be on this website or not. If you can’t handle it then leave. I know I’ve gotten some really nasty comments over the years but I’m not losing sleep over it because I’m not fickle/weak. My choice to be on here. Yours too.
But as for real life “body shaming”. I have never once in my entire life seen a man openly body shame and/or publicly humiliate a woman. I have however had women say insensitive comments about me being “too skinny” along with other things I have little/zero control over a few times. But that’s “okay” right? I was taught to let that roll of my shoulders and I do. But I’ve definitely seen women snipe at each other.
Also men not being physically attracted to overweight women is NOT shaming/bullying. A man is guilty of absolutely nothing if he isn’t giving you attention just because he doesn’t find attractive. That is not “body shaming”. No. You are deranged and overprivileged to believe otherwise. Seriously you really are if you think attention/validation from the guys is some sort of “right” or something ridiculous.
Women body-shame women more than we ever do and no one calls it out. They play nice, and then talk nasty behind each other's back, or just straight up through insults about each other's appearance in public.
Women also body shame men as well. Nobody feels bad for a guy with a belly if he brutally got rejected by his crush, you know what they would say? Go lose some wait Peter Griffin. Hell, men bodyshame each other too.
The question I have is this. Why can't people just grow thicker skin and ignore bullshit remarks? You need to know something, yes it's not nice to do that I agree. I mostly keep my opinions to myself. However, when you're dealing with the outside world, understand that there are folks who don't give a damn about manners and they will give you their opinion even if you don't ask for it. It's not a "men's issue" it's just a lack of of manners issue. Instead of bitching and moaning about it online, you can either a) ignore it and don't let it affect your day or b) learn a few good comebacks to clap back at someone being a smartass without crying about it on the internet.
I am never going to lay into a woman & say she is unattractive for x reason. But if a woman asks if she needs to lose weight or do men like slender girls better I will simply tell the truth. I don't think lying will help her.
Men can be incredibly critical. I was at a strip club and a friend criticized a strippers big toe - it was the only "fault" he could find. Yeah like your perfect was my thought.
I am surprised you get criticized as you are objectively very beautiful. It is maybe a bit like window shopping where you say to your self I wouldn't buy that because of x but in reality it is the best you can get. You can't buy because the shop is shut so you hypercritically dismiss it.
People like to talk shit and troll. Also, the body positive movement has gone extreme, which is heavily for women, so you're getting a lot of guys doing the opposite extreme. Both sides are ridiculous to me if one of those guys shaming is being genuine.
Outside of that, most guys don't body shame women.
Hi there, I'm sorry men cyberbully you on the internet. I've been cyberbully by younger women online, so it's bad and when I ignore them they make up other usernames or accounts to contact me and main thing It's over jealousy that they all do that to us, and it's sad but the world is so full of hate. Best wishes to you :)
Most of it stems from bitterness, jealousy or they just insanely judgmental people.
Social media brings out the worst in humanity, guys are just more vocal and aggressive on the internet. They'd never have the balls to say this stuff to someone's face. Just know that the majority of people in the real world don't act like that. They also say to never read the comments, or at least disassociate from them emotionally.
Lol, you get bodyshamed by women way more than men. Here’s a golden nugget of advice you’ll ignore. STOP LOOKING FOR VALIDATION FROM STRANGERS ON THE INTERNET
Pretty obvious answer. There's less opportunities and more consequences IRL. Under what circumstances do people just walk up to people and start hurling insults? Online most people are going to feel more comfortable making them. Also what you're leaving out is what you said that led to these comments. I highly doubt people randomly post out of context negative remarks just for the fun of it.
u women should just focus on those men that do love them regardless
it's only shame if you let it feel ashamed
I think one major reason is they live in a fantasy world where girls are like cartoon images and not equals who burp and sleep and have the same survival needs they do.
We all do this shit. No one is a saint you just don't say it out loud but we all get repulsed by some things. Shaming could be a good thing. Some people need to be shamed. If you're fat and unhealthy, you deserved to be shamed. If its something that can be changed, im all for it
I think its because they dont know what it's like to be a woman. They think that women have it better because usually the guy will put effort in getting a women, pay for them, cater to them, etc. They don't know what it's like walking in our shoes. Well same goes for many women, they don't know what a man is going through. They think men feel less, are all players, sex addicts etc. So they treat other women better than men or are more cruel towards men
I feel like women body shame more -- how tall a guy is, how big is dick is. Males tend not to care about a woman's height, males tend to not care if she's 110 pnds or 150 pnds. If she's sweet and she has a great personality we value you that more. It's the entertainment industry that ridicules and body shames women. But many females support Hollywood and the entertainment industry sooo *shrug*
I'm sorry to hear that. There are a lot of mean, spiteful guys here. These are just angry, insecure men who have been rejected once too often.
Body shaming also happens to guys (it has happened to me) but less than in happens to women.
Are you kidding me. Women will laugh at guys when they see he has a small dick. Women mock men ruthlessly for our height and our dick sizes two things we can’t fucking control. You women wouldn’t last one second as a man who has to deal with height and penis insecurities.
Not to put too fine a point on it but men want women because of what their body can do.
We want babies for that and respect we offer a lifetime of service. If you can't respect that trade you can do it all by yourself.
the internet is full of freaks and weirdos. just accept that.
Because they are weak and it makes them feel better to belittle someone.
I've seen more women be critical about other womens bodies than I've seen men do it. Usually behind their backs. Not saying men don't, I just don't see it
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