How do I cope after being a rebound?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been with this guy for a year. I thought we were one thing and he thought another. I didn’t notice it at the time but he was using me as band aid when being dumped by girls he wanted. He never told me he was seeing other girls but was just disappearing and coming back. The disappearing and coming back stopped but he just made sure to keep me attached because he didn’t want to let me go in fear things didn’t work out with a girl. He’s now seeing another girl and this time I found out about it. He’s treating me like trash and said I was never his type and we never dated, I was just some girl he was boning while he was bored and had no one else to screw. I never saw things that way but he did.

[BadApple69]

I’m sorry this happened to you.
It’s not surprising… guys can be assholes. How do you cope with it? You have no choice… you just move on. Know that guys can be like this… not all guys but the bad ones are out there.
Next time, make them work a little harder for it… make them prove themselves a little more. And just know that humans as a species are very selfish. Seek out the more caring and less selfish guy… they are out there.

[ienjoylookingatgreen]

Move on. It's not a simple thing, when I say move on I mean get away from anything to do with him. The drama, the pain just leave it alone. Truly focus all your effort and thinking on things you love to more easily get your mind off it and actually improve your Life. Go out and whatnot so you can meet new people to bring positivity to your life to outweigh the horrible things he has done to you.

[boggboss]

By using it as a life lesson and not being blind to red flags

[Tharithi]

Why were u so blind with him