Guys I need some help?

[Anonymous]

I’ve just found out that my boyfriend kissed someone else whilst we was dating but not exclusive. Whilst he was away on a lads holiday! Did he cheat on me?

[HelpfulWoman]

-not exclusive
UNLESS you have spoken about it and made the boundaries clear, its NOT cheating because you can't cheat what you're NOT PRIVY to knowing is cheating!

[Asker]

Even sex?

[HelpfulWoman]

even sex. if you haven't established boundaries, you can't expect someone to follow them? fairly simple logic

[incorrected]

You said you weren't exclusive, so no, he didn't cheat. You probably feel cheated on though, because you probably did want things to be exclusive; let's not pretend we're all just cool with all this nonsense, we're not, we want to be someone's only person and only desire and that's that.

[HighValue]

If you had multiple dates before that happened then it is cheating. If you only went out once and it was unknown whether you would date more or not, then it wasn't cheating.

[Asker]

How many is multiple?

[CuriousMufuxka]

The fuck did you just bloody find this out now? And why are you asking here instead of confronting your main squeeze?

[Asker]

I don't know he said something and I was like what, you kissed another girl!

[ProbablyClueless]

If you guys weren't exclusive at that time, then he didn't cheat.

[Zestyassmf1997]

There’s no way he, “just kissed her” while away on a, “lad’s holiday.”

[spartan55]

You do know what exclusive means, right?

[Shortkay4568]

Yess he did

[In_Trance]

dump him