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Guy I talked to for almost two weeks and went on a date with asked “what would your father think about your pics?”…. on the date!
I told him that my dad is a pastor… but the point is I’m 26 and he’s 36…. So we are grown and my father lives 18 hours away..
my pics were just me showing my legs and light cleavage in a swimsuit… nothing explicit tho
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He’s wondering what my father thinks bc my father doesn't KNOW… bc I am a GROWN woman… it’s not his business
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The picture you are describing doesn't sound too bad so I don't know why he would be concerned about that, so many girls have bikini pics. Were you showing off in the pic? Or just happened to be swimsuit? He maybe concerned because of this went anywhere he would have to deal with your dad at some point and wants to figure out what he will be dealing with. It's also possible he thought you were showing off and he thought it was wrong or something so he was being a little judgmental. I understand guys who like more modest girls who don't show off, I'm one of them but I still don't agree with being judgmental of girls that do. I don't know if you were showing off her not just a guess at this point.
PS I'm sorry about the troll you have to deal with here.
He does have a judgy demeanor at times bc he’s the one who probably talked to me bc of it. Like I don’t even understand what he’s trying to say…..
I think he is judging the pic and thinks you are showing off too much and shouldn't. He just can't come out and just say it. I get liking more modest girls but some guys are just mean to those who are not. He also maybe extra judgmental. I would have to see the pic to know, not asking to by the way. If he thinks you are not being modest with the pic he shouldn't have even asked you out.
He ghosted after …. I told him I wanted to wait until marriage…
He also asked when I was last intimate with someone
Sounds to me that this guy is judgmental and hypocritical. He wanted to judge you for your picture, from what I can tell. But he ghosted you because you on the wait till marriage, you dodged the bullet here. I praise that you want to wait till marriage, I do too. That's hard to find nowadays. Don't worry about this guy He ain't worth it, I'm sure you'll find someone worth it one day.
Yeah he has his skeletons that he thinks I’m not aware of… like following “vanilla bunny “ a trans woman who lives locally.. and she has explicit fully naked pics
Wow yes he is a hypocrite. You definitely lucked out, you can do way better don't worry about this guy.
He’s active in church and everything…. I really liked him…. I still feel hurt about it even though it was almost three months ago… I still kind of like him
But he did give me closure…. He doesn’t want to put time in if we aren’t going to eventually have sex… he said he doesn’t want to go back and forth bc I misunderstand what he be saying. He said we can check in here and there
I get it. I have definitely like the girls I shouldn't and held on way longer than I should. It's hard to let go sometimes when you find someone you like. But this guy does not sound like he's worth your time or your thoughts. I would move on. You can find someone better, someone who's going to respect that you want to wait till marriage which is a rare beautiful trait in my opinion.
I guess he thinks I’m a whore.. and was expecting it…. Why would he even say “we can check in here in there” punch in the gut
I don't know some guys are weird, sounds like he was hoping you were easy or something. Seriously don't worry about the guy. I know it's not easy I have been hung up on many girls I shouldn't have been but it will be better for you to.
Thank you
Your welcome, you will find someone who wants to wait there are many more than you think who do or even guys who haven't waited but will respect someone who wants to.
Pictures doesn't sound crazy but if he's a priest so just spare dad the details. He knows you aren't living his life so he knows sexual things are going to happen. He won't mind.
Right bc at the end of the day he talked to me
I should’ve asked him if his parents know about honey bunny.. a trans woman he follows who lives locally.
But I found out after the fact