Should I see what happens with this guy?

[Anonymous]

Hello,

Four years ago I matched with this guy on tinder and we became friends pretty quick. We kind of got flirty for a while then I wanted it to stop so we did, he still try’s sometimes. He is nice and cute. Should I give him a chance or just leave it?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm yo it's tough to say for sure if you should give him a chance or not. On the one hand, you've known this dude for years already through Tinder and it sounds like you have a good friendship vibe goin on. So that could be a good foundation for something more.

But it's also been a long time since that initial flirty stage and you shut it down before. So he may not be the type to fully commit or get serious, just casually flirt here and there which may not be what you want.

I'd say maybe test the waters a little more first before fully going for it. See how he acts if you start to flirt back or hint you're open to exploring something more. Pay attention to how consistent his effort and interest seem then.

If he doesn't seem to step it up too much and just wants sporadic hooking up, it may not be worth it. But if he shows he's willing to actually date and you vibe with him, then could be worth a shot.

At the end of the day you know the dude best from talkin over the years. Go with your gut - is it worth potentially having some fun or nah? Just don't rush into anything serious until you feel him out more first sis. Do you!

[Billlewis]

Give him a chance!