Am I in the wrong?

[Anonymous]

So I’m talking to this guy and me and him decided to meet up. But when I got there he left. So I started to leave also cuz I had only gone to see him. Then when I was leaving he came back and got mad at me for leaving. Am I wrong for being mad and not accepting his apology that he had given me later on? Cuz other than this he has been a good guy. Or maybe is his true colors starting to show?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, nah sis don't even sweat that clown. Like he really gonna get mad at YOU for leaving when he's the one who ditched? That's so backwards.

I'd be mad too if a dude pulled that. You took time out your day to go meet him and he bounces without a word? That's wack. Then he acts like you're in the wrong for dipping too? Nuh uh.

Red flag city if you ask me. That apologizes don't mean squat neither, he gotta show some real change in behavior now. Like you said maybe this showing his true colors - that he'll ghost and get mad about it.

Personally I'd drop him like a bad habit. But if you wanna give him another chance, I'd be looking real close to make sure he treating you better from here on out. And next time don't even stress it if he pulls a no-show, his loss! You deserve way better than that nonsense sis.

[Saiesh30]

As much as it was annoying, it wasn't enough you know to develop an opinion about a person.
A first time meet-up can be a weird one haha. There can be misunderstandings in communication which seemed to happen here as well.
Although, he should have stayed I believe and told you where he was going and be mindful of his phone.

[SecretsofKB]

So what was his reasoning for leaving? Then why did he come back?

[Asker]

We both still live with our parents and can’t drive. So my grandparents drove me and his friends drove him. I had just got there with my family and was was calling him to tell him I was there but he wouldn’t answer my calls. Then he texted me and said he was going to McDonald’s and didn’t even invite me after I had my family drive me a far distance to see him and he knew that. He didn’t even say if he was coming back so we waited a bit but he was not back yet. So my grandparents got upset that they drove me there for nothing and said we were leaving. When we were leaving he came back and texted me to come back. I told him that I had to go and he was mad.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. What you're supposed to do stay there looking stupid?