Am I in the wrong?

[Anonymous]

I and my other friend have guys on a game (vrchat) And my one friend is single. And she was in the room with us. And she's like "oh no I'm 5 wheeling" and she laughed. And we were like come sit with us. And she was like "no no I'm fine over here" she then left and went to another world.

She probably feels left out but I don't know what to do lmao

She wants someone but nobody wants her and I feel for her but it's like be an adult your 27. And she goes to different worlds to pout. This happened last night as well. Maybe she feels left out cause she doesn't have anyone but it's not our fault.

[Crimsyjo]

Ok so for whatever insecurities she has she felt that as there were two gals and two guys she would feel pushed out or excluded. You did nothing wrong as you invited her to stay. If it wasn't in a VR world maybe u wd have followed her and had a talk about it. But VR is not the same and whatever triggers she has (maybe the situation resonates with real life situations she's been in) are really hers to deal with. I mean... if your able you could reach out as a friend to one on one chat to her about it?

[CuriousHubby]

This is a her issue! As you said she is snmingle feeling unwanted!

Your being nice makes it hurt more for her. Let her be alone and just be a friend when she is ready to be friends.

Only think you could have done was lick your boyfriend off and hang out with her as just two girls.

[ProbablyClueless]

Nothing about that story sounded wrong to me. I didn't even hear any tension. Is there some reason in particular that you thought you did something wrong?

[Asker]

Well, she did this last night when everyone was around. She kept getting off and very distant.

[ProbablyClueless]

I wouldn't give it too much thought unless it becomes a pattern.

[AviatorTom]

General rule... If you think you are in the wrong, you usually are.

[Avicenna]

Nah, you’re not wrong

[HollyK21]

Are you in the wrong for doing what?